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A petty grudge
- Thread starter Jazzy
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Involving me directly? Hmmm 
Nothing comes to mind. I've been screwed over plenty of times but nothing bad enough to make me carry around a grudge for the rest of my life. Life's too short. You got move on, especially over petty matters.
Nothing comes to mind. I've been screwed over plenty of times but nothing bad enough to make me carry around a grudge for the rest of my life. Life's too short. You got move on, especially over petty matters.
If it's "petty", there'll be no grudge; it'll be over with almost as soon as it started.
If I'm "holding a grudge", it's for a good reason and it will be there 'til the day one of us dies; the person who "begrudged" me earned it. I'll be cordial, but they'll be kept at a distance; they will no longer enjoy the proximity TO cause hurt or pain in my life, again.
Exes have learned this about me, before we broke up for good - there's two ways to resolve it: either YOU stop doing whatever it is that's causing me pain, or I'll remove your ability TO do it and cause me pain...
...by leaving, *for good*.
Works really well, in my little universe.
If I'm "holding a grudge", it's for a good reason and it will be there 'til the day one of us dies; the person who "begrudged" me earned it. I'll be cordial, but they'll be kept at a distance; they will no longer enjoy the proximity TO cause hurt or pain in my life, again.
Exes have learned this about me, before we broke up for good - there's two ways to resolve it: either YOU stop doing whatever it is that's causing me pain, or I'll remove your ability TO do it and cause me pain...
...by leaving, *for good*.
Works really well, in my little universe.
Well said! Same here.
callie8
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I could never forgive sheer betrayal.
The guy that to went to london with , who failed to tell me before, the journey there and when we got to the hotel that he had booked a family room instead of a twin room and that his new girlfriend was also staying in the same room as us. I got the sofa bed :/
