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Do you care to know about your partner's past before getting married to him or her?

Jega

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Personally, I will never be able to marry anyone whom I don't know her past and be able to deal with it. If I can't know your past, I will not be able to live with you with peace of mind.

If it's something that I wouldn't be able to do deal with, I will tell you and we will move on with our lives.
 
It's very important to know who or what someone you're going to spend the rest of your life with have been through in the past before getting married for better and for worse. I won't take that risk of not knowing.
 
It depends on their criminal history and what they did. If they went around doing bad things and making careless mistakes, then I'm not interested.
 
I don't want intricate details of past partners or anything like that, but I would like to know the person I'm involved with before pursuing anything further.
 
I absolutely want to know about the person. Our histories define who we are and how we behave towards others, so it makes sense to learn about that person so you know what to expect.
 
Personally, I do not care about the past of my partner before getting married. If she opens up about it, then I am willing to listen. Besides, the past is past, and it does not need to relive the sour relationship(s) she had in the past.
 
Nope, I'm not interested in any one past. Let past be past I would be focusing on the person he becomes and who he is really is.
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Nope, I'm not interested in any one past. Let past be past I would be focusing on the person he becomes and who he is really is.
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Nope, I'm not interested in any one past. Let past be past I would be focusing on the person he becomes and who he is really is.
 
Yeah, I want to know every little detail. Marriage is a big step.
 
No matter how bad the past is, I would really want to know it, so as to prepare my mind. It is worse when you get to know it later. That can wreck the marriage.
 
For me l really don't care about that. I too wouldnt like to be examined about my past history
 
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