One thing is that we tend to find it difficult to forgive people who offended us. Have you learnt your lessons about forgiving people or not?
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It's hard for me to forgive some people that were blatantly harsh to me knowing full well of their intentions at the time, but as time passes I don't know if I necessarily forgive them, but I generally forget about it.
However if we are talking about life in general, I think we need to forgive one another daily. None of us are on our best behavior all the time. I want the people I love to forgive me and I want to forgive them. I assume that things from most people come from a good place. And if not a good place, then maybe just a clueless or unthinking place. So no need to react as if someone is trying to inflict intentional hurt.
How is that even possible? I don't have the bandwidth for that.I would hold grudges for years
I'm not this way now. I learned my lesson.How is that even possible? I don't have the bandwidth for that.![]()
Thats goodI'm not this way now. I learned my lesson.![]()
I've learned to keep my expectations low. Humans are notoriously unreliable. Instead I just plan for them to mess up so there's nothing to forgive because failure was expected. To succed is a nice surprise. And just judge people on the merits of their abilities and how they handle things because nothing else actually matters.
Yes life has. Never go to bed mad!