Have you ever felt like no one likes you?

[MrDawn]

Have you ever gotten that feeling people don't like you? How do you deal with those feelings?

 

[Hulk's iconHulk]

Nobody does.

 

[Dee]

Absolutely. My brain is hardwired to think the worst, so it's my final conclusion. Whether I care is a different story.

 

[Dollhouse]

Pretty much all the time, but I try not to care much about it

 

[Nebulous's iconNebulous]

Sometimes I feel that way but nothing I can really do about it.

 

[Dollhouse]

Sometimes I feel that way but nothing I can really do about it.

Yes, what people think about you is something you can't control

 

[emily]

I often feel that people pretend to like me. when I'm around, people wouldn't dare say anything bad about me, but as soon as my back is turned, that's when the rumours and everything else starts

 

[System32]

I believe this thought will pass at least one time in everyon's life. I had such thoughts but luckly that's all in the past.

 

[Kale]

Yep, every single time.

 

[popyura]

My default mode in social situations where I meet people for the first time is indifference... I present myself as is and can't really be bothered to care how that's being recieved. I'm confident that I am a nice and generally agreeable person, so when I don't click with people I figure it's just a chemistry thing.

 

[safeinsanity]

Most people are phony anyways and only pretend to like you if they think they can get something out of you. So it is sad that we tend to care what so many people think about us. Instead we should focus on the good qualities within ourselves. 😉

 

[DrLeftover]

I honestly don't care. I'm not overly social, I'm not worried about what others think of me, and I'm not going to expend any undue effort to change their opinion.

As far as my own 'feelings'.... I'm still not convinced that I have them.

 

[PGen98]

No one does like me, so...

 

[Nebulous's iconNebulous]

Yes, what people think about you is something you can't control

Very true!

My default mode in social situations where I meet people for the first time is indifference... I present myself as is and can't really be bothered to care how that's being recieved. I'm confident that I am a nice and generally agreeable person, so when I don't click with people I figure it's just a chemistry thing.

I tend to operate the same way.

As far as my own 'feelings'.... I'm still not convinced that I have them.

You're a robot!

 

[Kale]

Most people are phony anyways and only pretend to like you if they think they can get something out of you

I'd have to say one thing I've learned over the years online is this. I don't have real life friends and tbh I don't care to.

 

[Bluezone777]

Honestly, most people are too caught up in their own affairs to even have an opinion of you one way or the other unless you are actively engaging with a stranger such as while working retail for example. I think if you go around thinking no one likes you then that just speaks to how much you like you. If you can't find the will to like yourself then how do you expect anyone else to?

 

[Nebulous's iconNebulous]

If you can't find the will to like yourself then how do you expect anyone else to?

Speaking of that, people can be self-deprecating because they want others to come around and shower them with reassurance and love. Its a way of getting attention.

 

[Ghost Rider]

Reminds me of an old email I used [email protected] 🤣

 

[Crys]

Yes, I used to feel in a way about it but to actually care nowadays takes too much time and energy, both of which I don't have.

 

[Kale]

Yes, I used to feel in a way about it but to actually care nowadays takes too much time and energy, both of which I don't have.

As I get older I care less what people think of me myself.