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Once a cheater, always a cheater.

Do you think the saying "Once a cheater, always a cheater." is true?

  • Yes, once a cheater, always a cheater.

    Votes: 2 66.7%
  • No, people can change.

    Votes: 1 33.3%

  • Total voters
    3

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Do you think the saying Once a cheater, always a cheater. is true? Why or why not?
 
No, I think people can change. It's probably really hard and doesn't happen often at all, but I think it's possible to change.
 
I picked No, people can change. However, some people just cannot change and if someone cheated on me they don't get a second chance.
 
It is undeniable that people can change, but it is a fifty fifty deal, some change, and others don't.
 
Thats assuming the person can find someone to sleep with them as they age and become unattractive.
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My older brother was really a bad guy for a bit and he has made the full 180. He is on track with is wife for the edge of divorce and their relationship is great. So yes people can change but you have to want to
 
Nope. Some people have the power to change their ways, it's just that others didn't even receive some education when it comes to attitudes.
 
Once a cheater, always a cheater. A person may have cheated one or twice (or a few times) before in their life, and may have changed, but that label--to me--does not just drop off when you suddenly decide you don't want to hurt people's feelings anymore and ruin your relationships. If anyone cheated on me, I would dump their ass so hard. That is grounds for termination.
 
Depends on the person. Habitual behavior is a probably never going to change but if someone is truly remorseful for what they've done and want to change, hopefully they can.
 
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