Sleeping with a married person

[Peace2]

I find it to be annoying and fruitless . What could you possibly gain from it besides sex and money?

A man will always go back to his wife, always. He'll string you along for years pretending to love you and as those years expand, he'll breed more and more children with his wife, not you.



Sometimes the otherwoman does not even care that he's married and feels no shame or guilt..mostly because of their on misandriac and misogynist outlook on men and women (imo). I think both are to blame but the husband gets the most blame (or wife). As much as the otherwoman says nobody put a gun to his head and made him cheat, nobody put a gun to her head and told her to bed someone else's man.



Shame on the person cheating especially, especially if they have children. Instead of getting some adrenaline rush from attention fixes by some dude or some chick, you should be focusing on you're kids for crying out loud.



My dad cheated..I have no hard cold proof..but I'm sure he did. Once he cheated, he did not focus on me one bit. He needed to be reminded that I was graduating, or had this thing going on by my mom. That, and he really ..really was tight with money ..even if it were necessities..he'd grind his teeth at the idea of still having to provide such things.

Also, he showed me a picture of what I presumed to be of his illegitimate little bastards when I was 6 or so basically telling me that his new children are better than all of us..including me.



Most infidels don't last long in a relationship with the other woman. Most they could possibly get out of the situation is more babies..I really wish adults would be more responsible. Just stay single if you want to live the single life. Nothing shameful about being single. Don't wait years and years, made a family, built a relationship with someone, to start acting like an unmarried person. Just stay single and use protection. Don't drag people into it..dont drag innocent children into your weaknesses.



Also, no. Nobody can drive you to cheat..no one can make you cheat..contrary to infidel belief.

 

[MrDawn]

What if they didnt know until later on. They formed an attachment, and didnt want to let go after they found out?

I think it's a complicated and subjective question depending on each individual. I dated a woman for a little while who told me she was married but didn't want to pay for divorce and didn't want to re-marry. She went on to say that she met her husband and got married in Las Vegas. He left her in Las Vegas on a flight out and never talked to her again and she remained married to him for 15 years, still without a word from him. For whatever reason neither of them have filed for divorce. I found that very very odd.

 

[MamaFrankie]

I have nothing but contempt for those who knowingly sleep with a married person.

 

[Scarlet Rose]

I think it really does depend on the circumstances, on the surface it looks like it would be an immoral act. Although there can be lots of mitigating factors which would make it seem a lot more acceptable. For instance if the relationship had ended but for whatever reason they hadn't officially divorced. Like if the other person is refusing to sign the divorce papers, then I can totally support them still choosing to move on with their life. So sleeping with someone in that situation is perfectly fine. It could be an arrangement within the marriage, if the other person is aware and consenting to the arrangement then that would be fine too. Or if they didn't know it was a married person they were sleeping with.