Am I attractive?

[Naiwen]

So because as an aro-ace person, I don’t understand physical and romantic attractions. I want you to rate my physical appearance and why I am attractive or not to you personally.

 

[PGen98]

My thoughts are that I wouldn't put stock in what other people think about you. You're you, you're unique and all that matters is what you think of yourself. If you're happy with yourself, great! If you're not, what would you change about yourself, and is it feasible to do so?

 

[Naiwen]

My thoughts are that I wouldn't put stock in what other people think about you. You're you, you're unique and all that matters is what you think of yourself. If you're happy with yourself, great! If you're not, what would you change about yourself, and is it feasible to do so?

I just don’t think anything about myself.

 

[Crys]

I wouldn't look online for something like this. You have the genuine people that will give you an honest answer but then there's others who are just, for lack of a better word, nasty for no good reason. I agree with @PGen98 you don't need validation or whatever from anyone. What's most important is how you feel about yourself.

 

[PGen98]

I just don’t think anything about myself.

And that's fine, it's good not to worry about things like that if you can. Some of us, by virtue of being who and what we are do have concerns about appearance, not necessarily from an attractiveness standpoint, but for instance in my case I'm acutely aware of the fact that, being a trans woman, I will stick out like a sore thumb for the rest of my life. It hurts me at times, but it's a necessary evil to feel more comfortable in my skin. The fact you don't feel negative or positive is fine, because you're not wrapped up in appearance and that's great!

 

[DrLeftover]

1. Don't obsess about your appearance.

2. Don't obsess about what other people think of your appearance.

3. Be yourself.

4. Don't worry about what other people think of you as you be yourself.

5. Repeat daily until you are instructed otherwise.

 

[Nebulous]

It's a trap.

 

[Crys]

It's a trap.

??

 

[Nebulous]

??

Answering a question like this from a woman is a trap.... There is no correct answer.

 

[Crys]

Answering a question like this from a woman is a trap.... There is no correct answer.

Ah, haha. True.

 

[Nebulous]

 

[ElegantAura]

You don't need validation everyone different and also everyone like different looks so numbers mean nothing
and what i have to say also you look way younger than you are

 

[MrDawn]

Answering a question like this from a woman is a trap.... There is no correct answer.

This is true. If someone has body dysmorphia, telling them that they're beautiful isn't going to fix how they perceive themselves in the mirror.