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Facebook ruins relationships.

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Note:- This article is written by me and I did not copy it from anywhere.Briefly, it is about my 3 years experience on the facebook with about 2 relationships till now. I hope you like it





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Facebook. for who do not know about it -and I yet think it will be a few number-, is a social networking website launched in February 2004 that is operated and privately owned by Facebook, Inc in Palo Alto, California, with more than 500 million active users in July 2010. Users can add people as friends and send them messages, and update their personal profiles to notify friends about themselves. Additionally, users can join networks organized by workplace, school, or college. The website's name stems from the colloquial name of books given to students at the start of the academic year by university administrations in the US with the intention of helping students to get to know each other better. Facebook allows anyone who declares themselves to be aged 13 or older to become a member of the website.



By nature, we know that nothing is perfect. Everything must have its good and bad. Obstacles are essential presences inside everything that is considered to be a public figure or something like that.



How Facebook ruins relationships?

This is the axis of what I am roaming about, the Facebook has many lateral sides and effects that ensures the presence of a great anxiety factors and epic solicitude between taken, engaged and married ones over the network. Here is how the process is executed but firstly, I'd explain it in a chart way.



Add as a friend>>Opposite Gender>>Accept Request>>Chat Box/Messages/Wall Posts/Comments>>Mess up with my partner>>Break



Ok, now even if it seems a bit mysterious, I am coming up with the details and the behind-the-scenes queries. Well, when a boy, taken, engaged or married for example, adds a girl to his friend list. It can be nothing except that he wants to know her and have a chat with her, its well known that jealousy is something common and Godly created between each 2 hearts. When someone comes and tries to break the rules, he is breaking out the jealousy and freeing its monster so that it can overwhelm and flood its heart away, it makes you like the blind, who is trying to play football or something and can not see of course either the ball neither the net. Jealousy is a must and everyone who doesn't get jealous about his/her girl/boy, then he must be just enjoying and wasting time with her. This is surely a wide misconception between people. A side says why so serious? take it easy pal, the other yells, What the heck? No, you can not be doing this, I love you, you do not know what I do for you and you just go and hang the f*** on with another unknown moron over the chat box. Come on!. Ok, so here it goes, hatred starts to take its place in the series, and it goes for a break up with no doubts. Facebook is an open source, making everybody deals with anybody over any country regardless of any racism factors like the religion which is the most important racism factor IN THIS CASE of course. Racism with all its types and ways is rejected and widely denied by many society and community levels and heads. So, Facebook increased overpowered useless way of communication ruins TRUE relationships, not that for those who is just wasting their time with a partner who is giving them the god damn same feeling.



Facebook Privacy, is this a joke?

With sorrow, yes it is. It is a serious joke. The preset options are pieces of crap and customization is not totally free. For example, there is no cancellation for Add as a friend button as a total. I know that many people may say, no, we see people with no Add as a friend button, I'd say yes its present, but this is just because you do not have mutual friends with them. Facebook gives you almost the option to choose Friends/Friends of Friends/Everyone at every aspect, it only gives you the option to Only Me in few privacy-needless stuff like for example my information, my birthday, etc... This is also a way of ruining relationships over the Facebook 1 billion community.



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*Disclaimer:- This article is not offending or attacking the respective owners of Facebook Inc. It is just expressing a common general issue taking place worldwide.



Source:-
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http://www.socialmaniax.net



BIG NOTE:- The source is my forums link. So do not wonder about the I did not copy it from anywhere notice above
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Wow, nice article. Although Facebook has yet to ruin anything for me. Sorry that happened to you though.
 
Yeah it happened to me, but we can not blame the past.



Anyway, I am jailing my girlfriend away from the facebook right now. To avoid the same query
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I'm sorry this happened to you.





I've never had any problems so far but I know others that have.......



just make sure you know who it is before accepting a friendship.



if someone you know starts in on you, you can report their comments.



and you can block them.



had to that twice so far.



some are not worth wasting your time over.
 
I had your facebook problem but it was with my phone. An old girlfriend was constantly checking my phone and was freaking out over everything she saw. This type of jealousy is not really just simply human nature, its more immature nature that people can grow out of. If a partner trusts their other half, they would not question and over-think every little thing.
 
I have many on Facebook who are members on another forum. I made the mistake of accepting a friendship rewuest from an old troll who trolls a lot of forums and before I knew It, my other friends were being contacted by that person. They thought because they were on my list they had a right to troll through my friends list and contact them so they ended up having to block that person from every-thing.
 
Oscar said:
I have many on Facebook who are members on another forum. I made the mistake of accepting a friendship rewuest from an old troll who trolls a lot of forums and before I knew It, my other friends were being contacted by that person. They thought because they were on my list they had a right to troll through my friends list and contact them so they ended up having to block that person from every-thing.



That's very sad and scary at the same time. This is another reason I would never have a Facebook account.
 
Jazzy said:
[quote name='Oscar']I have many on Facebook who are members on another forum. I made the mistake of accepting a friendship rewuest from an old troll who trolls a lot of forums and before I knew It, my other friends were being contacted by that person. They thought because they were on my list they had a right to troll through my friends list and contact them so they ended up having to block that person from every-thing.




That's very sad and scary at the same time. This is another reason I would never have a Facebook account.
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It was scarey..... This troll contacted ny niece within an hour of her registering at another forum. In her messages to her the lies she told !!! Saying that I was her best friend and she could tell her every-thing because I told her every-thing. My poor niece was only 16 years old and this old troll freaked her out so much she never went back to the forum. Then I had to remove my sister, my neice and every-one with that surname for fear she would hit on them on Facebook.
 
Oscar said:
[quote name='Jazzy'][quote name='Oscar']I have many on Facebook who are members on another forum. I made the mistake of accepting a friendship rewuest from an old troll who trolls a lot of forums and before I knew It, my other friends were being contacted by that person. They thought because they were on my list they had a right to troll through my friends list and contact them so they ended up having to block that person from every-thing.




That's very sad and scary at the same time. This is another reason I would never have a Facebook account.
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It was scarey..... This troll contacted ny niece within an hour of her registering at another forum. In her messages to her the lies she told !!! Saying that I was her best friend and she could tell her every-thing because I told her every-thing. My poor niece was only 16 years old and this old troll freaked her out so much she never went back to the forum. Then I had to remove my sister, my neice and every-one with that surname for fear she would hit on them on Facebook.[/quote]



WTF! (excuse language) This really makes me angry
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Lesson to be learned:
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. That image reminds me of a profile picture of a real person I saw but I just can't for the life of me remember who and where.
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Jazzy said:
[quote name='Oscar'][quote name='Jazzy'][quote name='Oscar']I have many on Facebook who are members on another forum. I made the mistake of accepting a friendship rewuest from an old troll who trolls a lot of forums and before I knew It, my other friends were being contacted by that person. They thought because they were on my list they had a right to troll through my friends list and contact them so they ended up having to block that person from every-thing.




That's very sad and scary at the same time. This is another reason I would never have a Facebook account.
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It was scarey..... This troll contacted ny niece within an hour of her registering at another forum. In her messages to her the lies she told !!! Saying that I was her best friend and she could tell her every-thing because I told her every-thing. My poor niece was only 16 years old and this old troll freaked her out so much she never went back to the forum. Then I had to remove my sister, my neice and every-one with that surname for fear she would hit on them on Facebook.[/quote]



WTF! (excuse language) This really makes me angry
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Lesson to be learned:
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She had just had a baby and registered at the forum at my recco In the hope of talking to new mums. Within an hour there was this 60 year old hitting on her. I still got the messages sent to my niece and when I showed them to another member one day, they were astonished... It was not a message welcoming her to the forum. It was down right creepy saying .. 'I am Oscar's best friend and she has told me all about the Father of your baby so you can tell me every-thing and I am here to help you so please confide In me'. My niece was so freaked out I de-registered her on my Facebook friends Incase she went after her there.
 
Yes, I've seen many relationships ruined by Facebook, though none like this
 
Facebook, and the internet in general, doesn't improve English skills or relationships at all. There's nothing like having a face to face conversation without the aid of technology (yes, that rules you out, Skype).
 
I've pared my facebook down to immediate family and two real life friends that I don't talk to on any forums or other on line sites.



I found that when I had a friend on there and they commented on something I said, anyone who is was on their friends list could read it also - couldn't post to me, but could read stuff I hadn't included them in to begin with.



sorry, I pass.
 
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