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Falling in Love with an Asexual?

Naiwen

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I’m a sex-repulsed aro-ace and have an online male friend who’s head over heels in love with me. Thing you have to understand about an asexual is, they can never return your feelings, because they don’t feel it. So it’s useless to become obsessed with one of us.
 
I’m a sex-repulsed aro-ace and have an online male friend who’s head over heels in love with me. Thing you have to understand about an asexual is, they can never return your feelings, because they don’t feel it. So it’s useless to become obsessed with one of us.
Does he know you're a sex-repulsed aro-ace?
 
Now how are you planning on dealing with him to get him to leave you alone?
 
I dunno! Any advice please?

Well. We don't really know the details of your situation. Is this someone you know in real life or is he just online from where you live or in another country?
 
Ok, so am I the only person who is going to admit to needing to search for "aro-ace" - Aromantic asexual by the way.
 
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I dunno! Any advice please?
I would just tell him you're flattered that he loves you but you don't feel the same way towards him. Tell him you'd like to be his friend but nothing more than a friend. If he continues to bother you with his romantic thoughts, I would then block him.
 
If this person cannot reciprocate my feelings towards her, then I would rather not have an intimate relationship with her.
 
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