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feel comfortable with a new person?

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How long does it take you to feel comfortable with a new person?
 
It depends on the new person. Some are better at making people feel comfortable around them than others.
 
Agreed, totally dependent on the person. If they're a good person I can connect with, I'm comfortable with them quickly, if they're not easy to get to know, it can take me a long time or even never...
 
It depends on them. If they're good and I feel like I can be myself around them and we have aligning views. Great. If we don't and they're doing things to add to my stress level, nope. They can go far far away.
 
I feel pretty comfortable talking to elderly men, but I don't really feel comfortable talking to people around my age. It seems like it has always been this way. I guess I feel like I'm still young enough to easily get into the judgment zone of my young acquaintances.
 
I am not so comfortable with strangers. I am so skeptical to communicate with him or her. All I do is observe and do the right timing in conversing.
 
I don't even make the effort. Not a people person.
 
It depends

Sometimes it can take a few days or a few weeks. I sometimes never get comfortable with a new person or persons too.
 
Some people get REAL comfortable with strangers instantly these days (talking about hook-up apps).

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