Go Away!

[Evil Eye]

Maybe a better solution would be to refuse to acknowledge his existence

 

[Jazzy]

Use a pole

I don't have one I'm a female

 

[Evil Eye]

A metal pole!

 

[Jazzy]

Do you have one I can borrow?

 

[Evil Eye]

Sure, just take the first lamp post

 

[Jazzy]

Yeah and get arrested for destroying public property. Are you trying to get rid of me?

 

[Evil Eye]

Nah, prisons have internet right?

Go to a hardware shop and get a shovel then...

 

[Jazzy]

I don't want to bury you just yet Evil Eye but if you keep coming up with these ideas....

 

[Evil Eye]

I'll just dig my way out again...

 

[Jazzy]

Here Evil Eye...I got you some help to dig yourself out

 

[Evil Eye]

Thanks

 

[Jazzy]

How am I going to get rid of Evil Eye...oops....I mean the guy that won't take no for an answer

 

[Psychognosis]

When I mentioned saying your not worthy of him (gotta watch out a lie that epic will have consequences)., I think he might believe you and leave you alone. From what you said, he is not smart and has a large ego.



That doesn't work, I recommend a Louisville Slugger.

 

[Jazzy]

He's very smart and one of the Emergency Room doctors. He knows not to bother me at work as that would be considered sexual harassment. What he does is leave unsigned notes and roses on my truck when I'm on duty and he's off. He has approached me to ask me out when there is nobody else around to witness it.



I have a friend who is a State Police Officer and have asked him to speak with this guy. My friend is going to tell him that he's my BF and tell this guy to leave me alone. I hope this works!

 

[Bluezone777]

That sounds like harassment to me if he keeps it up and perhaps a restraining order or the threat of one might give him the idea that leaving you alone is a really good idea especially since you work together and it will force him out of his job if he doesn't quit it since he can't follow through with the restraining order while working in the same building as you.

 

[Psychognosis]

The guy is really smart intellectually and doesn't understand what common sense is and the word no isn't in his vocabulary...

 

[Jazzy]

That sounds like harassment to me if he keeps it up and perhaps a restraining order or the threat of one might give him the idea that leaving you alone is a really good idea especially since you work together and it will force him out of his job if he doesn't quit it since he can't follow through with the restraining order while working in the same building as you.

What is a restraining order?

A Restraining Order is a court order intended to protect you from further harm from someone who has hurt you; to keep the abuser away from you, or to stop harassing you, or keep the abuser from the scene of the violence, which may include your home, place of work, or apartment. It is a civil order and it does not give the abuser a criminal record.

Link: http://divorcesupport.about.com/od/abusiverelationships/a/restrain_order.htm



He's borderline but it would not be issued because it would be a he said, she said situation. I need witnesses to prove he's harassing me but I don't have any.

 

[Bluezone777]

All you need is some friends to tag along with you and witness him harassing you and their testimony along with your own should do it. Another option which might be expensive is to hire a private detective to follow you around and observe you being harassed by this guy and put it on videotape. That would probably also work in providing you with the evidence you need to put a restraining order on him as after all video tapes don't lie.

As far as I can see, you showing obvious dislike towards his behavior and him keeping it up anyways shows he is harassing you. That's what you would probably need to prove to get a restraining order against him.



One thing I want to add is it's probably best to actually seek out qualified legal professionals when deciding to do anything such as this. That way they can tell you what your options are in seeking legal action against this guy if you have any. I think consultation is usually free I think and probably your best option if you want to go that route.