How to attract a rich, young and handsome Man!

[Naiwen]

My tips for you as an experienced lady in this field. I have dated very rich men, 11-12 years younger than me and very handsome, from all cultural/religious backgrounds. So a step by step guide for you if you are looking for a boyfriend like this :

1. Don't fawn over his good looks. Why? Because he might have a hundred or more women or girls doing the same to him. So boring for him personally.

2. Feign disinterest. As an aro-ace, sex-repulsed, touch negative, and sex phobic, I don't have to pretend to be disinterested, I actually am TBH. He likes a chase, let him chase after you.

3. Don't act like a gold-digger. Pay for your own share from time to time. How do men or guys want to pay for me? I say I'll pay for them or my share at least on a date.

4. Have natural beauty on your side. Don't look into botox, plastic surgery or the like. I myself only put a few accessories, jewelry and love keeping my body fit.

 

[MrDawn]

1. Don't fawn over his good looks. Why? Because he might have a hundred or more women or girls doing the same to him. So boring for him personally.

That could be said about the woman herself. Some women have Facebook and Instagram with comments from other men on their profiles commenting on how hot and sexy they think they look. Men will go and worship at a woman's altar if he likes her enough. Being a man, I can tell you some men like it when a woman they're attracted to shows them signs of interest.

The thing with dating is that everyone plays by their own rules.

2. Feign disinterest.

Too much disinterest ruins the mood. You have to give a little. No one wants to talk to a statue. Otherwise guys like me just keep on walking.

He likes a chase, let him chase after you.

Actually, a majority of men don't like to "chase" after women. To some of us it's a form of rejection and teasing. I chased after this one girl for 3 years in middle school and we never got together. . I chased after 4 or 5 girls in high school that I liked. It got old, real old. Fast. That tactic is horrible and sometimes it's hurtful when taken the wrong way. I view it as a woman playing games with me. Some men don't like games, I'm one of them. I don't want someone who's going to toy with my feelings. If they're going to be immature and play games with you, let them run far far away. It just tells me they're not looking to be serious. I didn't put up with bullshit in the online dating world and I definitely didn't put up with it in high school. If a woman was interested in me, she had her own methods of getting my attention. When I did online dating like Tinder and Plenty of Fish, If the woman didn't meet me in a public place within 2 weeks to prove her existence and that she was serious about getting to know me, I'd unmatch with her and move on. No man likes a catfish.

3. Don't act like a gold-digger. Pay for your own share from time to time. How do men or guys want to pay for me? I say I'll pay for them or my share at least on a date.

Definitely agree with this rule. I don't want a relationship built on money and sex. I had an ex wife that treated me that way.

4. Have natural beauty on your side. Don't look into botox, plastic surgery or the like. I myself only put a few accessories, jewelry and love keeping my body fit.

I agree. While good hygiene is important. I do think beauty is in the eye of the beholder.

 

[Smiley]

Isn't going exclusively for a rich man a definition of being a gold-digger? You can pretend not to be, even delude yourself into thinking you're not a gold-digger, but if you're after him just for his money, what are you if not a gold-digger?

 

[Nebulous]

My tips for you as an experienced lady in this field.

Are you though? You always post about having no interest in sex or relationships and talk about how you have been (and are going to be) single for life.

 

[Naiwen]

Are you though? You always post about having no interest in sex or relationships and talk about how you have been (and are going to be) single for life.

Yes I am before discovering that human beings are boring for me personally at least anyways.

 

[Nebulous]

Yes I am before discovering that human beings are boring for me personally at least anyways.

So before that you had rich guys doing your bidding?

 

[Naiwen]

So before that you had rich guys doing your bidding?

I’ve been having a reverse harem of them yep. Like at least 3-4 of them hanging around me, bidding their time to be my next boyfriend/husband. Yep, just like in a reverse harem anime.

 

[Ghost Rider]

This only made me.....

 

[Nebulous]

I’ve been having a reverse harem of them yep. Like at least 3-4 of them hanging around me, bidding their time to be my next boyfriend/husband. Yep, just like in a reverse harem anime.

How rich were all these guys and how much money did you get out of them?

 

[Naiwen]

How rich were all these guys and how much money did you get out of them?

Don’t remember. But at least bank directors or department directors of a company?

 

[MrDawn]

Don’t remember. But at least bank directors or department directors of a company?

That doesn't help. They didn't show you their big bad bank account? Maybe you were conned. They probably lied to you. Some guys lie about being rich to get attention. Maybe you should talk to strippers at a club sometime lmao.

 

[Naiwen]

That doesn't help. They didn't show you their big bad bank account? Maybe you were conned. They probably lied to you. Some guys lie about being rich to get attention. Maybe you should talk to strippers at a club sometime lmao.

Whatever, it’s passed, so no point in beating up a dead horse right?

 

[MrDawn]

How rich were all these guys and how much money did you get out of them?

I dated a stripper who actually knew a rich guy who took her to Australia for a few months. She'd even been in the porn industry. She was a "fluffer" girl on the set a few times. Anyways, she had photos and old plane tickets to prove it. Her sugar daddy who was also her ex boyfriend knocked her up and was paying her 600 a month in child support for her 2 year old daughter. He had promised to leave his wife for her but ultimately went back on it. Not to mention she was 4 months pregnant with another man's kid.

I just quit seeing her because she was rude, commanding, egotistical, and thought I was rich. I wish I was rich but I wasn't and I didn't want to be her doormat. She was very disrespectful to me. She told me I wasn't allowed to talk to my ex wife at the time who I had "joint custody" with. She didn't want me co-parenting. She said she didn't want no "baby mama drama". She was really immature. So one day when she called me for another date I told her I had to do some work mowing for someone and I would return her call. I never called her again.

 

[Naiwen]

I dated a stripper who actually knew a rich guy who took her to Australia for a few months. She'd even been in the porn industry. She was a "fluffer" girl on the set a few times. Anyways, she had photos and old plane tickets to prove it. Her sugar daddy who was also her ex boyfriend knocked her up and was paying her 600 a month in child support for her 2 year old daughter. He had promised to leave his wife for her but ultimately went back on it. Not to mention she was 4 months pregnant with another man's kid.

I just quit seeing her because she was rude, commanding, egotistical, and thought I was rich. I wish I was rich but I wasn't and I didn't want to be her doormat. She was very disrespectful to me. She told me I wasn't allowed to talk to my ex wife at the time who I had "joint custody" with. She didn't want me co-parenting. She said she didn't want no "baby mama drama". She was really immature. So one day when she called me for another date I told her I had to do some work mowing for someone and I would return her call. I never called her again.

Maybe you should quit dating and become single for life like me, no?

 

[Webster]

Isn't going exclusively for a rich man a definition of being a gold-digger? You can pretend not to be, even delude yourself into thinking you're not a gold-digger, but if you're after him just for his money, what are you if not a gold-digger?

 

[MrDawn]

Maybe you should quit dating and become single for life like me, no?

I spent 9 and a half months single after a divorce and a few women. I've been with my current girlfriend since December of 2020. Getting to be 2 years. If this relationship goes badly. I think I'll stay single.

 

[Nebulous]

I spent 9 and a half months single after a divorce and a few women. I've been with my current girlfriend since December of 2020. Getting to be 2 years. If this relationship goes badly. I think I'll stay single.

Do you have a feeling it might go badly?

I dated a stripper who actually knew a rich guy who took her to Australia for a few months. She'd even been in the porn industry. She was a "fluffer" girl on the set a few times. Anyways, she had photos and old plane tickets to prove it. Her sugar daddy who was also her ex boyfriend knocked her up and was paying her 600 a month in child support for her 2 year old daughter. He had promised to leave his wife for her but ultimately went back on it. Not to mention she was 4 months pregnant with another man's kid.

I just quit seeing her because she was rude, commanding, egotistical, and thought I was rich. I wish I was rich but I wasn't and I didn't want to be her doormat. She was very disrespectful to me. She told me I wasn't allowed to talk to my ex wife at the time who I had "joint custody" with. She didn't want me co-parenting. She said she didn't want no "baby mama drama". She was really immature. So one day when she called me for another date I told her I had to do some work mowing for someone and I would return her call. I never called her again.

Dated a stripper porn star fluffer? Don't think I could handle all that baggage.

 

[Webster]

stripper porn star fluffer?

Stripper porn star fluffer?

...when were Tempest and Nebulous ever a couple?!?