I lost the guy of my dream

[socialize]

I am not letting a guy tell me if I am gay or not. Just because of. What you are in you know what. i loved him and being disrespectful and telling me to F off is not a guy I deserve to be with.

 

[identityissues8]

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[MrDawn]

I don't get it. Its a very vague and incoherent post. 

 

[Jazzy]

Are you saying you're gay and he's not? Then when you told him your feelings towards him, he told you to F off?

 

[~KAGE-008]

...and that is why I don't want to be in any relationship right now. It's rather frustrating because I lack of trust when it comes to new people.

 

[Jazzy]

I just hope @socialize comes back and clarifies this whole thing.

 

[socialize]

Sorry guys LOL! We fixed the issues but we are having other issues..... The whole problem was the role of sex since we are both gay. Yes we are both gay not bisexual or curious about homosexuality. He got all upset because I rather top but I am both roles. He got all upset and pointed the finger that I am straight because I like to top during sex. The problem is when I try to open his eyes with the definition of a gay male the definition of being gay is having feelings and have interest toward another male ironically I thought I would never tell a guy I love that. Anyways now he will not tell me his problems and issues which are upsetting me. We are long distance guys I am 17 and he is 15. We been dating for 3 years and I am lacking my feelings towards him. Who has the right to point a sexuality I am not when clearly I know who I am. Sorry for not clearing this up because I do not want to go into full details because what else I would scream into this message. I am calm and hope I cleared the curious fog. Right now I am like 55% upset towards him.

 

[Dee]

Sounds like a lot of pointless drama, but that's what you get when you're so young and dealing with so many hormones. Not to mention the fact that bringing together two different people into one relationship can truly be a difficult feat unless both parties are willing to try to communicate, respect, and trust one another. I hope this works out for you, socialize. It'd be nice, but when you're that young, these things usually don't last very long. And certainly long-distance relationships tend to make the situation even more fragile.

 

[Nebulous]

Maybe he's feeling like you're being selfish & don't care about his needs as much.

...maybe he thinks you tend to put what you want first?