Jealous Friends

[Nebulous]

Have you ever had a freind get jealous of your other friend?

Like say, you hang around with the one friend more and do things without that person a lot more... Then the jealous friends starts acting stupid because of it?

Have you ever been the jealous one?



[line:1kx9crx7][/line:1kx9crx7]

I have.. One friend I had always used to say

You wouldnt even know him if it wasn't for me!! He was MY friend 1st.

...Funny thing is, this person is like 27. It is very childish. Lol.. He got over it now though, as that guy he was jealous of moved to another state.

 

[Skillet]

Yes, an OLD friend, she just happened to know my girlfriend, and she took all the credit for setting us up. Lmao. Then she got mad because my ex didn't want to be friends with her. She was too clingy. She blamed it on me, and said the all infamous, I knew her first. Except my friend was only 17.

 

[Corleone]

I had a friend who was constantly hanging out with his other friends, and I had no problem with him having other friends, but it began to grow old every time I asked him if he wanted to hang out or go do something; he would say no because he had so and so over or he already had plans. I never once became jealous of his friends, I just stopped asking him to hangout after a few months of constant rejection. We had been best friends since a young age, but I assumed he no longer wanted to hangout or even be friends.

 

[Kaczynski]

Ah yes, it happens a lot, especially with boyfriends best friends and spending more time with either. >.> Friends come together and grow apart, communication is really important though. Even if you do grow apart, you don't want some stupid jealousy issue from 1998 to get between you. It has to be something more important. Like dating your friend's sibling.

 

[Madyy]

Ah yes. My best friend got jealous of one of my other friends back in the 8th grade. This one friend is a girl I've known since Kindergarten. She went to school here in that grade, left, came back in the 4th grade, left, and came back in the 8th grade and is still here. When she came back in the 8th grade, I hung out with her all the time. My best friend got really jealous of me because she said that I talked to my other friend more than her and blah, blah, blah.

She got over it, though, and all three of us were friends.

 

[Nebulous]

I had a friend who was constantly hanging out with his other friends, and I had no problem with him having other friends, but it began to grow old every time I asked him if he wanted to hang out or go do something; he would say no because he had so and so over or he already had plans. I never once became jealous of his friends, I just stopped asking him to hangout after a few months of constant rejection. We had been best friends since a young age, but I assumed he no longer wanted to hangout or even be friends.

Well in that sense, then yeah, you had a reason to get jealous and stop talking to him.

I always try to make time for all my friends. If I am out with another friend, I will tell the one who called Im at <insert location> you can come meet us here if you want

 

[Princess]

Yes, that's why I don't let you be friends with anyone else.....I was your friend first. So there.

Seriously, I hate it when friends force you to choose between them. Happened to me with 2 of my best friends a couple years ago. One quit talking to us all together. Sad.

 

[InMyOpinion]

In high school I had a friend who was jealous when I would speak to other friends or hangout with someone without her. She was like a leach almost. Thankfully over the years she got less clingy and jealous. I haven't spoken to her in years now.

 

[Doc Nova]

I've never had friends jealous of me, but my own siblings definitely have been. I had a lot of medical issues and special needs when I was younger, so my mom tended to pay more attention to me.

 

[MrDawn]

I've had several friends that became jealous. A lot of it had to do with past girlfriends or my career. Lets just say those friendships are over.

 

[ElegantAura]

Not really, but i never had many people i can call real friends anyways

 

[Dee]

I was the jealous friend, but only ever really about wanting to hang out and getting blown off for drugs/alcohol, boyfriends, etc.