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Lonely

Jazzy

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How do you cope with being lonely?
 
Sometimes, Like Tuesday - I don't cope at all.. But that was a combination of alot of things. However if I had of had someone to at least talk to I wouldn't have ended up carving my arms up :/ Now I have a 5 day race to get them to heal :/

Otherwise, Music, 'Friends' ha what a joke.
 
Raven said:
Sometimes, Like Tuesday - I don't cope at all..  But that was a combination of alot of things.  However if I had of had someone to at least talk to I wouldn't have ended up carving my arms up :/  Now I have a 5 day race to get them to heal :/  

Otherwise, Music, 'Friends'  ha what a joke.

I'm so sorry to hear this and it breaks my heart that you have no one to talk to. If I'm here and you ever feel the need to talk to someone, please feel free to PM me. :hug:
 
I come here
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Raven said:
Sometimes, Like Tuesday - I don't cope at all..  But that was a combination of alot of things.  However if I had of had someone to at least talk to I wouldn't have ended up carving my arms up :/  Now I have a 5 day race to get them to heal :/  

Otherwise, Music, 'Friends'  ha what a joke.

I am also around if you ever want to talk
 
Raven said:
Sometimes, Like Tuesday - I don't cope at all.. But that was a combination of alot of things. However if I had of had someone to at least talk to I wouldn't have ended up carving my arms up :/ Now I have a 5 day race to get them to heal :/

Otherwise, Music, 'Friends' ha what a joke.

Well, the PM is always available if you want to talk to me about it. I could tell you my situation which is very similar.
 
I don't really get "lonely" in the sense that a lot of people do. I only have one friend IRL who I typically see once a week, although that can fluxuate. Sometimes I get restless and need to get out and have lunch with someone, but it's not a huge deal for me as I am a homebody who prefers the company of herself and her cats for the most part.
 
Thanks folks, means alot. Next time I will come on here :/
 
Raven said:
Thanks folks, means alot.  Next time I will come on here :/

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I don't really know. Visiting online forums, listening to music or even playing music helps. I play the guitar and that is certainly one of my largest escapes..
 
Play games on FB.
 
Combo said:
Visiting online forums

This will help you if you stick with us. But, if you want RL confidence, you should look for clubs near where you live, with the same interests and/or similar way of thinking as yours.
 
I'm always lonely. I know I live with my parents currently which is better than when I was flatting by myself. But I just miss having a girlfriend. I know she caused so much crap for me and ruined my life but I feel so lonely all the time....

Netflix is sort of a girlfriend for me though.
 
Aaron said:
I'm always lonely. I know I live with my parents currently which is better than when I was flatting by myself. But I just miss having a girlfriend. I know she caused so much crap for me and ruined my life but I feel so lonely all the time....

Netflix is sort of a girlfriend for me though.

Maybe you should get out of your house and start meeting people with the same interests as yours. Jazzy already told me about it since I feel the same here.
 
I currently live in a small town and most people just keep to themselves. I miss being in Christchurch which is one of our three major cities here but when/if I move back there I won't be able to see my family much.... because they live an hours drive out of the city. So I would be back to living by myself or flatting with people who drink, smoke pot, and do anything else in their power to piss me off.

I was flatting for about a year and all the flat mates did was have loud music on, piss me off, drink and smoke. Eventually in the last 6 months of living there I just stopped paying rent. I thought F it. So eventually we got kicked out as the owner wanted to sell the place anyway.
 
Jazzy said:
How do you cope with being lonely?

Call/text people or go see them /invite them over, if not: watch tv, get on Off Topix, etc
 

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