Brian Fan said:
A member who flames and starts personal attacks when other members do not agree with their opinion. How do I co-exist?....that's what the ignore feature is for
Every time you log on Facebook, they hit the 'chat' feature and bug the life out of you. Every time you log on a forum, the private messages start. They lie, they doctor and edit messages and E Mails and then forwarded them on to any-one who will listen to them. They phone your house to ask your husband personal questions about your marraige when they know you are out. They message your family and even your husband about you when they see them log onto a forum.
When you finally dump them, they turn and then send messages to every other member full of lie's and hate filled bile.
They then post on forums that It Is YOU that is trolling them. They Insist they have you on Ignore yet report your posts.
They then Insist that they have been banned from at least 4 other forums because YOU have lied about them. They Insist that no-one answers their threads or posts and has no friends because YOU lied about them despite them being banned on forums and having no friends long before you came on the scene.
People like this should never ever be given any private details... they are sad losers who then latch on to their next victem.
It starts with 'Hey Babes', or 'Hello my friend', can I have your E Mail addy because I do not trust the messaging system on the forum'... What they are really saying Is... I want to badmouth every member but do not want the site owner seeing what I say...
BUSTED !!!
Wow, now that would be enough for someone to really lose my trust and respect in a heartbeat. Like many members on this or any other forum, I have a life, I have a job that I have been at for 14 months on Wednesday, and if anyone thinks that can pull that one on me, I wouldn't even respond. All 20 emails would be trashed pronto, and if I knew how to block users on Yahoo, that person would be blocked from contacting me at once. I know that sounds harsh, but really, some of us do have real life issues to attend to as well, and that does not involve responding to 20 + emails.[/quote] O It starts off nice as Jazzy said. They know you have a life so the E Mails start off with ...'Hey Babes, I know you're busy.... but..'... Then an hour later you have another message asking where you are. When you finally tell them you can not take any more, you get a grovelling message asking for things to be the way they were. You give them another chance and then It all starts up again. When you end It with them the last time that Is when you see what a real spineless sack of shit they really are.
They play the game on their favourite forums because they do not want to get banned. Any new member they message asking for their E Mail addy saying they do not trust the messaging sevice when what they really mean Is that they know those messages can be used as cyber bullying by the forum.
When you look at these members on the forum you see that no-one posts with them and they latch on to newbies like a smelly phart. Then they beg members from other forums to post In their room on their regular forum to make It look as If they have ally's.
Then they follow you around other forums you are on. Within 24 hours of being registered, they are reporting your posts and asking members who they do not even know, for their E Mail addys. Those dumb enough to give them out, then get E Mail telling them what an evil person you are, but being too stupid to realise those messages are passed straight on. Then when It all goes sour for them, they threaten to sue the site owner
On their regular forum they are still posting away that they are being cyber bullyed.
I actually worked It out the other night... in 3 months I had over 700 messages from this one member.. If you take just 9 a day and some-times It was more than that, It equals 720 messages In 3 months. When you flag this up with them, they Insist they have only sent you 3 and you did not reply to them. I still have every one of those messages stored with all the nasty vile stuff they have said about other members. The reason you did not answer Is because you could not... Once they had said their piece... they blocked replies... spineless and gutless !!!!
They talk of site owners In their messages as though they are close friends when the truth Is, Site owners are just people trying to run a business and do not want them hitting the 'contact us' button every 5 minutes. Also the truth Is, the site owner knows exactly what they are up to because messages get forwarded to them.
They do not understand British Banter... they trawl through every thread looking for any member who may disagree with you and then quote them adding ... 'I agree' and their ridiculous laughing Icons even In political threads that they are too stupid to understand. When all those members Ignore them and their posts they blame YOU even though those members think they are ridiculous and making a fool of them-selves.
They E Mail every Moderator on a forum asking for their E Mail address and not getting the hint when they do not even reply to their messages.
They vie for attention with the popular members on a forum and even In a serious Political thread, will write...' I sent you an E Mail'... What they are really saying Is ... 'Look every-one... I have got a friend'... They do not post any-thing relevant to the thread, they post to point score and flame.
They take word games from forum to forum along with jokes and pass them off as their own. They take a members style of writing and use that on other forums to make them-selves look unique and Interesting.
These people should be avoided at all costs. As Jazzy said, be very careful of these trolls on forums and never ever give your details until you really know some-one.
