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Man scared to introduce transgender girlfriend to family because he’s scared they’ll laugh

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A young man is terrified to tell his family about his transgender girlfriend because her voice is still too deep and he’s scared they will laugh.

Dale Brink, 23, said he fell in love with 21-year-old Hannah Whetton when she was still biologically male, and faced mockery from his friends while she transitioned to become the female she always felt she was.

But Dale says he is still to scared to introduce Hannah to his mum and brother – who he doesn't want to name – because he’s scared they will hear her deep voice and laugh.

‘They wouldn't understand our love,’ he said.

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Meh, a lot of women have deep voices. Before she meets them, she needs to sort those roots out.

Your thoughts?
 
I've always had a deeper voice than most women; people blame it on my cigarette smoking, but I actually inherited it from my mom, who's never smoked a cigarette in her life. We both have that Lauren Bacall whiskey-voiced thing going on.

Thank Gawd the good Lord gave me big tits, so no guy's parents would laugh at him when he brought me home to meet 'em.


OT: Mehhhh...people are gonna do, what people feel they gotta do. This includes the parents, as well as the boy-in-love AND his transgendered girlfriend,


so just 'Do YOU' and let the chips fall where they may.


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Pretty fucking sad that he feels like he needs to keep the person he loves a secret from his family members and friends. Who cares if she was biologically male? They're not the one's sleeping with her, nor are they dating, or even marrying or whatever they plan to do in the future. If these people are happy and want to spend their lives together, a person's body parts should not be relevant in any way--period. It makes me sick to think that some people, for some silly reason, make it their business.
 
If he fell in love while she was still a guy, that would theoretically make him bisexual. At that age I imagine his parents would already know this, and if they didn't I'd think that would be more worrisome.
 
If he fell in love while she was still a guy, that would theoretically make him bisexual. At that age I imagine his parents would already know this, and if they didn't I'd think that would be more worrisome.
Not necessarily. If she was still male and he was attracted to the male aspect of her, then yes, that would. However if he was viewing her as a female and had no interest in her male genitalia at the time, then that doesn't classify him as bisexual.

In fact, I have a straight male friend who likes transgender women. His current gf has had SRS done back in February but prior to that she had her penis, fully functional and her breast(implants I presume) and what not and for all intents and purposes looked female.

She performed oral on him...he never touched or wanted to touch hers.
When they had sex, for the most part, they would do positions where he wouldn't have to worry about it touching him though he later admitted that it didn't bother him as much as they were together if it did happen to touch him.

He always viewed her penis as simply a bit of a defect or an anomaly and now that she no longer has it, he is happy, she is happy and they are engaged. He never once viewed her as a male. Therefore he is attracted to her as a female and is straight
 
Not necessarily. If she was still male and he was attracted to the male aspect of her, then yes, that would. However if he was viewing her as a female and had no interest in her male genitalia at the time, then that doesn't classify him as bisexual.

This. This is what people tend not to understand. In her mind and everything she is made of, she is not a male. She is female as far as she knows, but just because she is male-bodied doesn't make her a male. There can be a difference in chromosomes, etc. He is attracted to the female aspects of her, from what I'm seeing, and that does not make him bisexual.
 
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