My wife cheated on me

[Randy]

Just a hypothetical question... I'm not married.



My wife cheated on me three times with the same guy after we been married for 3yrs, she said that he was just a friend.



Choose your answer above then reply below.

 

[Vivian]

Stay with her and try to work it out.

 

[Wolvendeer]

Having had to see how a relationship like this played out between my parents, I would say that I would leave immediately and figure out what to do later. My father stayed and tried to work it out for years, and all it did was create heartache all around. There are times when working it out isn't the answer, and if she cheated on you three times with the same guy, I would have to say that is one of those times. The sooner you leave a relationship like that, the better, in my opinion.

 

[Randy]

I'd Cheat on her back and get even. If she got upset over it then she still loves me.

Great marriage advice there huh?

 

[Wolvendeer]

Not necessarily. I've seen cases where it is more 'the nerve of him cheating on me' than anything based on hurt feelings.

 

[Kasynlie]

Leave her (decide what to officially do later)... sounds most reasonable.

 

[Corleone]

Divorce her instantly

 

[Cranos]

I'd divorce her instantly. Once might be forgiveable but she's done it 3 times, working things out probably didn't work out very well if it's already the third time it happened and I don't see what good it would do to leave her without a divorce.



Also, cheating back would just make the divorce more complicated.

 

[The Dragon Master]

Leave her (decide what to officially do later)

 

[Wingedkuri]

Leave her while considering divorce. Later on talking everything out before making the final decision. I don't think there is really a way to get even by cheating back when they broke your trust first. (If someone considered it) I still think you get the short end regardless.

 

[Crys]

Divorce her bitch ass. Married for three years, she cheats three times? Obviously she doesn't want to be married. Pretty sure she would get pregnant, try to pin it on me when it would be her "friend's".

 

[MrDawn]

I'm pretty forgiving in my relationships. I might stick around after the first time depending on how bad it is and whether or not we can work things out.

But the second time? No. I'm out.

 

[Black Angel]

Leave. Just because you forgive, doesn't mean you forget, and once trust is broken, it is hard to regain, even for the strongest, and most forgiving of people.

This is a lesson I have learned myself.

 

[ElegantAura]

Cheat on her back with 4 times

Ok serious now i will never give an advise when i hear only one side ... also
Just do what you think is best.
.. only you can decide.... no one know what is going on in your house .

 

[MrDawn]

Cheat on her back with 4 times