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Pessimist Or Optimist ?

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Are you a pessimist or an optimist ?

Whichever you are, you might find this article interesting.





A Point of View: The advantages of pessimism



Incompatibility between our big aspirations and the reality of life is bound to disappoint unless we learn to be a bit more gloomy, says Alain de Botton.



Today I want to advance the unusual idea that we'd be a great deal more cheerful if we learnt to be a little more pessimistic.



And, from a completely secular point of view, I'd like to suggest that in the passages before they go on to promise us salvation, religions are rather good at being pessimistic. For example, Christianity has spent much of its history emphasising the darker side of earthly existence.



Yet even within this sombre tradition, the French philosopher Blaise Pascal stands out for the exceptionally merciless nature of his pessimism. In his book the Pensees, Pascal misses no opportunities to confront his readers with evidence of mankind's resolutely deviant, pitiful and unworthy nature.





In seductive classical French, he informs us that happiness is an illusion. Anyone who does not see the vanity of the world is very vain himself, he says. Misery is the norm, he states: If our condition were truly happy we should not need to divert ourselves from thinking about it. And we have to face the desperate facts of our situation head on. Man's greatness, he writes, comes from knowing he is wretched. Given the tone, it comes as something of a surprise to discover that reading Pascal is not at all the depressing experience one might have presumed. The work is consoling, heartwarming and even, at times, hilarious.



For those teetering on the verge of despair, there can paradoxically be no finer book to turn to than one which seeks to grind man's every last hope into the dust. The Pensees - far more than any saccharine volume touting inner beauty, positive thinking or the realisation of hidden potential - has the power to coax the suicidal off the ledge of a high parapet.



If Pascal's pessimism can effectively console us, it may be because we are usually cast into gloom not so much by negativity as by hope. It is hope - with regard to our careers, our love lives, our children, our politicians and our planet - that is primarily to blame for angering and embittering us.





More Here - http://www.bbc.co.uk/news/magazine-14506129
 
Discworld for everything:
STARS EXPLODE, WORLDS COLLIDE, THERE'S HARDLY ANYWHERE IN THE UNIVERSE WHERE HUMANS CAN LIVE WITHOUT BEING FROZEN OR FRIED, AND YET YOU BELIEVE THAT A... A BED IS A NORMAL THING. IT IS THE MOST AMAZING TALENT.

Talent?

OH, YES. A VERY SPECIAL KIND OF STUPIDITY. YOU THINK THE WHOLE UNIVERSE IS INSIDE YOUR HEADS.

You make us sound mad, said Susan. A nice warm bed...

NO. YOU NEED TO BELIEVE IN THINGS THAT AREN'T TRUE. HOW ELSE CAN THEY BECOME?
From Hogfather. (This is the part of the speech that isn't on YouTube.)

(Sorry for the caps, but it's written in small caps in the book.)

The point being: in the large scheme of things we really ought to be pessimistic. But we aren't because we can make things appear insignificant by telling a little story (Twinkle, twinkle little star). Or the other way around, making everything that happens on this little planet far more important than anything happening in the rest of the universe.

On the whole, being pessimistic isn't going to do much good. Getting your hopes up isn't the best thing either. Have to find that middle ground.
 
Well, at least if one always look on the down side of things,

if the worst happens there's no big disappointment and

if things go well, you get a nice surprise
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