Question for the neosingles

[~KAGE-008]

What made you make that decision of not dating and/or having a relationship?

(NOTE: Neosingle = no intentions of dating, especially for an indefinite period)

 

[Elvira]

My crappy health, that takes priority.

 

[~KAGE-008]

Long story short. It all started with the premonition which came true in June 2013. Then I lost every contact with some person three months later.
Then during the entire 2014, I was a complete outsider. Failed FOUR courses in both semesters (1 and 3 courses respectively). And lost the only 'peaceful' classmate I had last semester.
All that led me to the decision of not dating anyone - anymore - which took effect in February.

 

[Smiley]

The simple fact I enjoy being single & alone. It just works best for me. Plus, I find the whole dating "rituals" to be unnecessarily complicated and filled too many "what ifs", if you know what I mean.

 

[Cory]

I don't know if I'd consider myself a neo-single, but I think I'm done asking women out. I've been dumped on quite a few times and I'm pretty good at making things awkward between me and the girl I want to date. I probably have made all the girls I've asked out uncomfortable. I'd like to find a SO one day, but I try not to have high hopes in finding one. Call me insecure, I guess, but relationships have always been a never-ending debate in my head about whether they are for me or not and the full purpose behind them.

 

[Nebulous]

I think I'm done asking women out

Unfortunately its very rare for a woman to ask a guy out. You gotta put yourself out there. One of them will say yes eventually.

 

[Cory]

Unfortunately its very rare for a woman to ask a guy out.

Indeed, women get a lot more attention in the dating field than men do.

I just bring myself down when I get rejected and it turns into a battle of depression, and like I said, sometimes I think I make women feel uncomfortable, so sometimes I wonder what the point is.

 

[Nebulous]

so sometimes I wonder what the point is.

To get laid!

 

[Cory]

To get laid!

As much as I'd like to experience that one day, I don't see it as a valid reason for getting into a relationship.

 

[Nebulous]

As much as I'd like to experience that one day, I don't see it as a valid reason for getting into a relationship.

Well you can get laid without getting into a relationship.

 

[Cory]

Well you can get laid without getting into a relationship.

Indeed, but I feel like I'd just be using the person for my own benefits.

 

[Nebulous]

Indeed, but I feel like I'd just be using the person for my own benefits.

You gotta do what you gotta do sometimes

 

[Cory]

You gotta do what you gotta do sometimes

I feel you, I guess I'm just too dang shy!

 

[Nebulous]

I feel you, I guess I'm just too dang shy!

You'll get over that eventually. Just gotta shake those insecurities some how.

 

[Cory]

You'll get over that eventually. Just gotta shake those insecurities some how.

You're right, just got to keep talking to people IRL.

 

[MamaFrankie]

I'm asexual, asocial and autistic.

 

[Smiley]

Triple A?

 

[MamaFrankie]

Definitely!