The first thing you notice

[Jazzy]

What the first thing you notice, when you see someone for the first time?

 

[Lee]

Usually, their face… eyes and mouth mainly. If I’m attracted to them I usually check out the butt too ??

 

[Jazzy]

I definitely notice eye contact. Eye contact, or lack thereof, says a whole lot about a person. If a person looks at you when they talk to you, it shows that they are interested and engaged in the conversation. It shows confidence, makes conversation pleasant and gives a sense of acceptance.

Lack of eye contact can show that a person is not comfortable with you or are just plain disinterested in the conversation. It can also show that they lack self-confidence and that they feel awkward with close communication.

Being aware of those things help to learn how to interact with others on their level. The last thing I would want is to make someone feel more uncomfortable if they already lack self-confidence. It helps me to be more sensitive to the conversation and establishes boundaries.

 

[Page]

How they present themselves. This is a mix of clothing and posture. If what they're wearing is neat and tidy (Even a T-shirt and shorts can be neat and tidy and if they walk/stand/sit like they give a damn and not bored, sluggish, or just the kind of look a person usually has when they're going to be rude.

 

[JennyorAlice]

I notice their attitude towards me. Are they going to be nice or are they going to be mean when I meet them?

 

[Cherry123]

Usually, their face… eyes and mouth mainly. If I’m attracted to them I usually check out the butt too ??

Yes it should be the face because that's what you would notice first too

 

[Ginger]

How they behave and their voice tone, if they are friendly or not and do they ask unnecessary questions