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Unapproachable or intimidating

Jazzy

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Do you feel like you're unapproachable or intimidating to the opposite sex?
 
I don't think that I am, and most certainly hope that I not.
I know what it is like and wonder how many friendships that I may have missed out back in the day when I would have been to intimidated to say hello ..
 
I don't feel that I am but apparently men think I am. Have no idea why. It's very rare that a man will approach me and start a conversation. Could just be my freakin' flaming red hair that turns them off or maybe they think all redheads have a bad temper. :shrug:
 
or maybe they think you're too good looking and maybe think they are out of your league? @jazzy
 
Jazzy said:
I don't feel that I am but apparently men think I am. Have no idea why. It's very rare that a man will approach me and start a conversation. Could just be my freakin' flaming red hair that turns them off or maybe they think all redheads have a bad temper. :shrug:

I think men where you live must be insane ... Red hair is gorgeous
You need to come to Ireland
 
Jazzy said:
I don't feel that I am but apparently men think I am. Have no idea why. It's very rare that a man will approach me and start a conversation. Could just be my freakin' flaming red hair that turns them off or maybe they think all redheads have a bad temper. :shrug:

Oh, no. Red hair is my favorite. Ok, maybe it is more intimidating. Love red haired women, but I usually don't talk to them first.
 
Yes. I don't know why. I rarely get hit on, or maybe I am just ignorant to it.
 
Guardian said:
Jazzy said:
I don't feel that I am but apparently men think I am. Have no idea why. It's very rare that a man will approach me and start a conversation. Could just be my freakin' flaming red hair that turns them off or maybe they think all redheads have a bad temper. :shrug:

Oh, no. Red hair is my favorite. Ok, maybe it is more intimidating. Love red haired women, but I usually don't talk to them first.

If you love redheads, why don't you talk to them first? What makes them more intimidating?
 
Dee said:
Yes.  I don't know why.  I rarely get hit on, or maybe I am just ignorant to it.

you are pretty and maybe the guys around you and in your town/city are scared that you'd turn them down... ;)

get confident and believe in yourself next time you see a nice guy you wouldn't mind talking to and get to know, just go for it... :highfive:
 
No, not really. I talk to girls all the time ;)
 
Yeah, because I have trust issues. It's been going on since early 2014.
 
IF anyone was interested in me they may have thought they'd scare me or something lol.
 
Possibly intimidating. I'm 6'2 and around 250lbs. But sincerely I love to kick back and kid around. Always embracing my inner Dude.
 
Doom said:
Possibly intimidating. I'm 6'2 and around 250lbs. But sincerely I love to kick back and kid around. Always embracing my inner Dude.

nice... :cool:
 
I don't know. Am I? You tell me. ;)
I don't know you well enough to have an opinion. The only thing I can have an opinion on is that you seem to be a very funny and nice person.
 
Why thank you, ma'am. :hut:
 
Do you feel like you're unapproachable or intimidating to the opposite sex?

Isn't a thing about me that is unapproachable or intimidating o.0 I'm a big ol' fluffy bear.
 

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