What's Going On?

[Jazzy]

To make a long story short, I was in a LDR with a guy for almost two years. The relationship ended (last month) with both of us agreeing that we're better off just being friends. Now I've found a new guy (local to my area), this other LDR guy is acting all pissy and nasty. It's gotten to the point that I can no longer even be friends with him. WTF, is going on? I'm turning to you guys to help me understand this. Any clue why he's acting like he is?

 

[Evil Eye]

My money is on He still wants you and is jealous.

 

[Jazzy]

@EE: I would agree with that BUT he was the one who kept calling off the realtionship. He said he wasn't ready to make such a commitment. Then he said he thought it over and asked for another chance. I gave him another chance as I felt the relationship was strong enough and we would be able to make it work. Then he said after he thought about it more, he felt we would make better friends than BF/GF. I totaly agreed with him. The friendship was fine and working well until he found out I found another guy. So, I'm back to WTG is wrong with him.

 

[beowulf]

he dosnt know what he does want, but you do, and he dosnt want you to have what you want



you have moved on.......he hasnt.......if he cant be happy for you or 'let you go' then he is going to be a pain for ever and a day......you cant live your life how he wants it, thats not fair on you......ditch him and be happy with your new guy

 

[Nebulous's iconNebulous]

Life is to short for indecisive game players. Its apparent that your friendship, if it ever was a genuine one (he was probably using you as a backup/plan

, is now damaged. So I say get rid of the negative Nancy & focus on yourself & positive things in your life. Such as your new local friend.

 

[Jazzy]

Just wanted to thank everyone who took the time to reply. I'm done with this so called friend. I need to concentrate on good things in my life not negative ones. I'm sorry that we couldn't be friends but he's made that impossible now.

loser and hello new guy!

 

[JasonBegheFanGirl]

I wish you all the luck in the world with your new guy!