You're kidding right?
In case you're not..
Men.
Men are more jealous.
Incels exist which means that men are even jealous of
other men with respect to women they don't have a snowballs chance in hell with. And then, they make things worse by
imagining the kind of man she is attracted to or dating and then go even further off the rails in anger.
You have men going on armed violent rampages because they can't get a date, let alone laid, and really think themselves as "nice guys" or "alpha males." And then they get on Reddit, Manosphere, 8chan or 4chan, et. al, and then worship the other assholes who did the same.
It's almost like these guys really bought into the whole "it's a man's world/the world is your oyster" thing and took that shit seriously until a woman said no to them.. after that, its time to go on a mass-shooting.
I mean, one guy killed his sister because she had a Black boyfriend. Was he jealous that his sister decided to date a Black man instead of him?
DMX described these dudes best when he said "I'm tired of weak-ass niggas whining over pussy that don't belong to them, fuck is wrong with them?"
Hm.
Yet these guys never pause and ask themselves if the reason they strike out is because of them. Or ask the women who turned them down why they did so. Instead they just resort to stalking, ad hominem attacks, rape, violence and eventually,
murder.
Oh no, the problem isn't them in the least.. no.. no.. it really can't be that can it? The combination of the lack of self-awareness and entitlement is astonishing isn't it? And the hilariously ironic thing about them is that these dudes have Shakespearean worthy lists of requisites regarding the women they are interested in and what she has to have going for her.. for them Stacy has to be a virgin, yet a pornstar in the bedroom and she basically has to be a perfect 10 by their standards.. when in reality, they probably couldn't get a prostitute with a billion dollars sticking out of their back pocket in a brothel.
Which, only validated that woman's intial intuition and gut instincts with respect to rejecting them. We seriously can tell within 5 seconds of seeing you whether or not we want to be with you. And often times, we make those decisions based on our intuition, which is why, not taking no for an answer or stating that "you always get your way" or "no one ever tells you no" etc. really is NOT the flex you think it is.
It is a
threat.
A man is more likely to succeed if he takes the no for an answer and moves on. I say this because sometimes that initial no, is a gauge (I dont want to say "test" but it is kind of a litmus test..) for us regarding what type of person you will be. If you take the no and walk away, then we are more likely to second guess ourselves and wonder if we jumped the gun by saying no. In that case, we are more likely to redress, but offering an alternative in an attempt to get to know you better. And if not, well you just confirmed our gut feeling about you.
And as a woman, I am not jealous in the least. If someone thinks that they can take my husband away from me, let them try. I could use the laugh anyway and he is very protective of our relationship, so chances are, he won't be as kind in rejecting that person as I would be. and I have been the same way when dating and even with my ex who cheated.
In all honesty, I was angrier about my time being wasted with him, and him putting me at risk for HIV than I was about the fact that he cheated.
I literally could have lived my life not knowing this, but the reason I found out, was because he was bitching to his grandmother after I told him yet again that I had moved on which obviously upset him enough for her to call me about him trying to have a kid with her 60+ neighbor for the last 6 months. This told me that there was a 2 month overlap, which was why I was at the clinic with my husband (then boyfriend) first thing in the morning.
The funny thing is, he was the jealous one throughout our relationship. He didnt want me hanging with my friends from work or school, and he didnt want me to have a social life outside of him either, but it was ok for him to have that kind of social life. He would get mad at me because dudes were cat-calling me whenever we went anywhere. I would always tell these guys that it was disrespectful to be hitting on me when I have a boyfriend. This dude was projection central station. He was angry at me for having friends and others finding me attractive while he is dicking down Granny in Queens.
That said though, I will get involved if she doesn't take the hint where my husband is concerned. (I know from personal experience that women were a lot nicer when rejected, than men are, so I probably wouldn't have to get involved like that..)
However, when I hear something that is blatantly a lie, then I am going to wonder
why you are lying, and I will say that in most cases I have seen, especially from my guy friends, is that the reason their gfs reacted that way, and labeled as being jealous, it wasn't because she actually was, but that she
knew he was lying and wanted to know
why (there's that intuition thing again.) She wanted to get to the bottom of
why they were lying, first and foremost, and shortly thereafter, he has been caught cheating.
So, what a lot of dudes have often labeled as jealousy, from their gfs was really a response to them being caught in a lie. I say this with respect to both personal history and my friendships with guys over the years, including those I cut off because they lied about me to their gfs.. and I have told them simply that if they were cheating, that it wasn't with me, and less than a week later, they break up because he
actually was cheating.. and thought she was doing the same and became jealous.
So on this topic, I will say that men are the worst when it comes to jealousy simply because they have literally killed, and STILL kill women over it.
There are women who ended up dead because they rejected a man. And manners had nothing to do with it. This is why we give you our phone numbers to get you the fuck away from us, for our own safety. and then block you after you have called. Y'all just don't take no for an answer and we know you are going to call if we give you a fake number so that doesn't work anymore either.
This exact thing is what led to me being followed home by a dude who stalked me in the fucking grocery store I was shopping at. Each time I was stalked (4x that I know of) was either by a dude who wouldn't take no for an answer, or by a crazy as dude that thought staring at you and stalking you would make you want to date them.
There is a reason why the saying "a man's biggest fear, is that the woman he is interested in, doesn't look like her pictures online, but a woman's biggest fear is that the man she meets up with will kill her" exists.
That shit is too true.
And in case someone thinks I am joking.. here are some examples..
It was "easy" for Christopher O'Kroley to kill Caroline Nosal, his coworker at a Madison, Wisconsin, grocery store and the object of his unrequited affection. He said so himself earlier this month, when he was arrested for fatally shooting Nosal…
www.mic.com
The killing of Miya Marcano in Florida has brought national scrutiny to how men are taught to deal with rejection.
aldianews.com
A gallery of 11 Black women who lost their lives for saying 'no' to or refusing their attackers.
www.essence.com
Michael Jordan Carpenter, 36, was charged with second-degree murder in the Oct. 24 shooting of Nicole Hammond, 28, in St. Cloud.
www.nbcnews.com
Janese Talton Jackson, 29, was shot dead outside a bar by a man who she had earlier pushed away, police said in court documents
www.cbsnews.com
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