Who's your crush?

[+paradox]

could be on tv or the movies, could be someone from Off Topix or the internet, could be a person in your class or a co-worker...

so, who's your crush?

 

[Elvira]

Damon from the Vampire Diaries! lol

 

[arti]

so, who's your crush?

i think you're pretty swell

 

[+paradox]

so, who's your crush?

i think you're pretty swell

thank you @arti!

 

[beowulf]

jenny agutter

a british actress ive had a crush on since i was 14 and she was 23............loved her in anything shes done..........she is 62 now and i still would!

 

[Jazzy]

No crush here. I prefer the real thing to someone I could never have.

 

[~KAGE-008]

No crush here. I prefer the real thing to someone I could never have.

Same here. Relationship > Crush for me.

 

[+paradox]

No crush here. I prefer the real thing to someone I could never have.

No crush here. I prefer the real thing to someone I could never have.

Same here. Relationship > Crush for me.

oh, come on now!

 

[Nebulous]

No crush here. I prefer the real thing to someone I could never have.

Awesome way of thinking

Hopefully the real thing will come along eventually.

 

[+paradox]

why do you assume that you can't have your crush?

 

[Nebulous]

People shouldn't waste their emotions on silly crushes. You're just setting yourself up for disappointment.

 

[Elvira]

Sorry, had to!

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=EIhSnaqou0I

 

[~KAGE-008]

People shouldn't waste their emotions on silly crushes. You're just setting yourself up for disappointment.

This. By the way, it is important to look for a therapist if suffering of trust issues (one of the reasons why relationships fail).

Me, personally, I'd rather wait until the right time comes. This doesn't mean I'll be having trust issues all the time. From the loneliness and excluding I had to overcome in the last year, I learned that the best things might happen if someone is patient.

 

[+paradox]

People shouldn't waste their emotions on silly crushes.  You're just setting yourself up for disappointment.

i don't see it as that...

you can have a crush on someone and not have feelings towards that person or fictional character...

i thought jessica alba was hot in the dark angel tv show, but i have no feelings towards jessica alba besides i think she's a cutie-pie...

 

[Nebulous]

People shouldn't waste their emotions on silly crushes.  You're just setting yourself up for disappointment.

i don't see it as that...

you can have a crush on someone and not have feelings towards that person or fictional character...

i thought jessica alba was hot in the dark angel tv show, but i have no feelings towards jessica alba besides i think she's a cutie-pie...

I guess I see things from a different perspective. I can think a celebrity is attractive without having a crush on them.

 

[+paradox]

informal
a brief but intense infatuation for someone, especially someone unattainable or inappropriate.

in·fat·u·a·tion
inˌfaCHəˈwāSH(ə)n/
noun
an intense but short-lived passion or admiration for someone or something.

 

[Nebulous]

informal
a brief but intense infatuation for someone, especially someone unattainable or inappropriate.

in·fat·u·a·tion
inˌfaCHəˈwāSH(ə)n/
noun
an intense but short-lived passion or admiration for someone or something.

Thinking someone is attractive doesn't always involve infatuation or intense anything. I save those feelings for real people. Got any more definitions for me? Not every thread needs to be a debate.

 

[+paradox]

i'm just pointing out having a crush on someone can be non-sexual or have no feelings involved...

having respect for or admiration for someone can be considered a crush...

you can always have feelings towards a fictional character too...

 

[Nebulous]

having respect for or admiration for someone can be considered a crush...

I think that falls into the category of... having respect for or admiration for someone

 

[Elvira]

Hook from Once Upon a Time
Dean from Supernatural

I used to have crushes on Spike from Buffy/Angel, Jake from the original Melrose Place.