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I was dating a married man and did not know he was married. There were no warning signs. We were dating for two months when I got a phone call. The woman identified herself as his wife. I was mortified. She told me she suspected he was cheating on her several times but could never prove it. He would, of course, deny it every time she questioned him.
I asked her if she could come to my house and I would set a trap for him. She agreed to come over. I called him and asked if he wanted to have dinner at my place. He said yes and I told him dinner would be ready at 5 pm. His wife arrived at 4 pm and we both waited. Well, you should have seen the look on his face when his wife greeted him at the door. It was simply priceless! Busted!!!
I asked her if she could come to my house and I would set a trap for him. She agreed to come over. I called him and asked if he wanted to have dinner at my place. He said yes and I told him dinner would be ready at 5 pm. His wife arrived at 4 pm and we both waited. Well, you should have seen the look on his face when his wife greeted him at the door. It was simply priceless! Busted!!!
^Nice one!
I picked "No" but then I remembered I was with a married woman a few years back. I didn't know she was married and when I found out, I ended the relationship. It was just a brief thing anyway, its not like I fell in love yet or anything. It was easy to move on.
I picked "No" but then I remembered I was with a married woman a few years back. I didn't know she was married and when I found out, I ended the relationship. It was just a brief thing anyway, its not like I fell in love yet or anything. It was easy to move on.
Khalessi
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Thankfully, I have neva been in this position. Doesn't sound like much fun either >.<
And no, I would neva knowingly place myself in this situation.
And no, I would neva knowingly place myself in this situation.
Sounds like a rather foolish thing to enter into intentionally as pain is the only end result that you will take away from it as everything else will be all so fleeting when faced with getting caught which is only a matter of when and not if.
Besides if they were willing to cheat on their spouse with you then what stops them from cheating on you with someone else?
I can't blame anyone for ending up in such a situation out of ignorance but the wise thing to do is to drop them like a hot potato the moment you find out or otherwise the first paragraph will be your future.
I never been in any relationships before so yeah...
Besides if they were willing to cheat on their spouse with you then what stops them from cheating on you with someone else?
I can't blame anyone for ending up in such a situation out of ignorance but the wise thing to do is to drop them like a hot potato the moment you find out or otherwise the first paragraph will be your future.
I never been in any relationships before so yeah...
Never been in this situation and I wouldn't pursue a taken man - would also end it if I ever found out I was dating a taken man (no different from cheating - regardless who was the first partner). I'm not much for polyamourous relationships either. I'd be too jealous for it to work.
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