I'm currently writing a speech trying to encourage people to use our airport, which is really difficult. Many people are afraid of flying for various reasons.
Are you afraid of flying? If so, why?
Are you afraid of flying? If so, why?
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My Stepdaughter is afraid of flying even though she gets on a plane at least once a year. She's afraid of it crashing. Yet, she drives a car every day where she's is more than likely to get hurt in a crash or die.
Yet, her rational thought does not compute this. For a lot of people they hold onto a fear of "If" fear is was stops people doing most things when they can't rationalise it.
So she gets a prescription from her doctor for it.
Agreed. I can think of better ways to go out of this world, too.The problem I have is that you're more likely to--if the plane does crash--die in that crash as opposed to surviving. I've been in plenty of car accidents and I'm still here, I'm alive, I'm not handicapped. And honestly? I'd much rather die in a car accident than in a plane crash. That's just not how I want to go out of this world.
The problem I have is that you're more likely to--if the plane does crash--die in that crash as opposed to surviving. I've been in plenty of car accidents and I'm still here, I'm alive, I'm not handicapped. And honestly? I'd much rather die in a car accident than in a plane crash. That's just not how I want to go out of this world.
Agreed. I can think of better ways to go out of this world, too.
One better way would be to die while having great sex, so - if I'm ever going to be in an airplane crash - I hope it's while being initiated into The Mile-High Club and I have that heart attack before I realize the plane is going down.
From my fingertips to God's eyes, and all that good schtuff...
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Understood, but the ratio of deaths in car accidents vs Planes?
Believe me. I know the ratio of death in car accidents vs. planes, as well as the ratio of plane accidents to cars, but there's also less planes than cars. That's all anyone ever talks about when trying to convince you not to be afraid of flying. In any case, I truly don't care how safe flying is. To me, it doesn't feel safe. I hate it. It terrifies me, and it puts me into a very scary, very powerful panic attack and I'd much prefer not to experience that.
Personally, I'm not afraid of flying...I just don't like it. I don't NOT like it enough to prevent me from doing it, I'm just not a big fan of it, especially the take-offs and landings which - rumor has it - NEED to be a part of every successful flight.
The person who probably really doesn't like flying and needs to be convinced to use an airport again, is the poor soul who gets placed NEXT to me, on each flight...
...and whose arm I claw at having lost all motor control, during each take-off and landing.
Sorry, fellow fliers. :cry2:
Understood but the volume of people is a lot more in a plane crash than a car crash.
I get the panic attacks, but it still doesn't change my stance on the fear aspect. Like with any fear in life. You make the choice to if you do something to control it or it controls you.
I know that, and your life is different than mine. However, my panic attacks are very real and very frightening. Fortunately, I only really get them every once and a while now, but that was after some therapy. I know 100% that if I got on a plane I would pass out from the panic, and that's not something I want to go through. That debilitating, terrorizing fear is one of the worst things I've ever experienced in my life.
I do understand Dee, perhaps I'm coming across too harsh. It isn't my intent. It's something that manifests.
I mentioned my step daughter who has the same panic attacks and is prescribed Diazepam to help with that.
I've been on over a handful of medications that don't exactly help to numb the panic. I would have to be knocked out, eg. prescribed something hard enough that I fell asleep. But your step daughter is a different person and maybe that works for her. I just know it hasn't worked for me in the past. Not flying works for me.