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Your hardest break up?
- Thread starter MrDawn
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Never had a breakup seeing as I've never had a SO, but on similar terms, the last girl I asked out I took the hardest hit from her rejection than any other girl I ever asked out. I couldn't stop obsessing about the situation I put myself in between me and her where I came off as a jerk due to essentially ghosting her and being snooty around her when she said we can just be friends and she didn't want to go out with me. This was the last girl I asked out and this was like 4 years ago. She gave me many chances to befriend her and I blew them all, I couldn't stop being an awkward weirdo around her. Overall though, this was like the turning point in my life for relationships because I've tried too hard to be in relationships before getting to know someone really well first. I learned the hard way that friendship should come before a relationship.
Probably breaking up with the person I had a child with because there was so much more involved in the breakup. Splitting custody and whatnot. Also we worked at the same place and she was fucking dudes that worked in my department, along side me all day. Made for a very hostile / uncomfortable environment.
Only had one relationship, so only had one breakup. It revolved around intimacy, or my inability to be what she needed, we tried, it didn't go well, I spent four days just almost catatonic, so she left me. Don't blame her, she deserved someone more than I could be.
Yeah, that hurt a lot. I loved her, but she needed a man and I wasn't one, no matter how hard I tried.Sorry to hear that.
How long ago was that?
About 9-ish years ago, maybe a little bit more.
