"Asian girls are so pretty!"

[Bluezone777]

How about I just say the negative attitude you give off doesn't exactly make you attractive? Sure attitude doesn't make you pretty but it can make a pretty woman look pretty ugly to me. It could even be the stereotyping and passive prejudiced towards white men that turns people off. It could even be that you show yourself to not be thankful for what you do have and always be angry over that which you don't have?

Like I said before, this all goes back to the attitude you give off so perhaps being a bit more thankful and cheery might just be the thing that turns your problem around?

At the very least, it wouldn't hurt to do any of those things.

It's really hard for anyone to really pinpoint just what is keeping Asian men from finding you attractive as everyone has their own idea as to what is and isn't attractive but the few things I listed here are a good starting point to finding out what is the turn off you give off to everyone.

 

[Naiwen]

Why do I attract Caucasians only then? I'm usually nicer.

 

[Bluezone777]

Good question and one I can't answer as what makes any man find a woman attractive is different and doesn't necessarily need to make logical sense. Personal preferences aren't born from logic as there is no logic which one could use to discern why one has preferences that another does not even if they seem to be extremely similar.

I personally would be thankful for what I have instead of being bitter for what I do not. Perhaps you will find that what you have is better then you thought and what you don't have isn't as good as you thought?

 

[Naiwen]

I'm not bitter, I just find it weird...

 

[Kirito]

Dunno why you attract white ppl only, but people liking the looks of other races is pretty common. When I went to Asia the local people also thought I was hot because I'm white and very tall. To them I was "exotic". I'm guessing it's much the same in your case.

Personally I also think asian women are very hot. Not all of course, you have ugly people in every race, but most of the time I will. As for why, I can't really explain it. I just like the look of them I guess.

As for why asians don't seem to think you're hot... I dunno, can't really see it from their perspective now can I lol.

I can understand that it's annoying to hear every time if you're not interested in caucasian men, but we're not consciously generalizing tbh. It's just preference.

 

[Naiwen]

Dunno why you attract white ppl only, but people liking the looks of other races is pretty common. When I went to Asia the local people also thought I was hot because I'm white and very tall. To them I was "exotic". I'm guessing it's much the same in your case.

Personally I also think asian women are very hot. Not all of course, you have ugly people in every race, but most of the time I will. As for why, I can't really explain it. I just like the look of them I guess.

As for why asians don't seem to think you're hot... I dunno, can't really see it from their perspective now can I lol.

I can understand that it's annoying to hear every time if you're not interested in caucasian men, but we're not consciously generalizing tbh. It's just preference.

yup, I guess so...

 

[identityissues8]

I think every man from whatever race has a preference of women. I don't see it as being a stereotype. What's bad about being pretty?

the fact that I'm Asian, which makes me automatically pretty or beautiful in their eyes.

Well, that must be a skewed kind of attraction on their part. Something of a cultural fetish.
Realise most people see past race and are open to dating/marrying/being with anyone from any race due to their merits as an individual.

 

[Jazzy]

Ashera,

You can post your pic in this thread: http://offtopix.com/showthread.php?tid=32
...Lets see if the whole forum starts lusting after you or not.

Excellent idea! A picture says a thousand words. :wink:

 

[draco99]

I think you should be taking these as compliments. Let men have opinions on you.

 

[Naiwen]

yeah, but what I don't like is: "Oh you're Asian, you're so pretty, let's have biracial babies..."

 

[identityissues8]

Re: RE: "Asian girls are so pretty!"

yeah, but what I don't like is: "Oh you're Asian, you're so pretty, let's have biracial babies..."

You have ACTUALLY had someone say that to you??? :/

 

[Bluezone777]

yeah, but what I don't like is: "Oh you're Asian, you're so pretty, let's have biracial babies..."

I think that has more to do with them being a man and you being a women. It's not to say your race isn't playing a part but I doubt they would be saying that if you weren't a woman. I can see why you or any woman wouldn't like that behavior as it is probably very uncomfortable to receive such attention especially when it's not wanted by you. Some people just think of themselves and their desires then the feelings of others and this is the result.

 

[Jazzy]

I have seen very attractive Asian women.

Oh, really?

Yes when I worked for a Japanese owned company. What made them attractive was not only their looks but also their personality. In my opinion, you can be very attractive but if you act superior or rude to people, you're no longer attractive in my book. This goes for both men and women.

 

[Naiwen]

yeah, but what I don't like is: "Oh you're Asian, you're so pretty, let's have biracial babies..."

You have ACTUALLY had someone say that to you??? :/

yep.

 

[Jazzy]

yeah, but what I don't like is: "Oh you're Asian, you're so pretty, let's have biracial babies..."

How well do you know this person who said this to you?

 

[Naiwen]

yeah, but what I don't like is: "Oh you're Asian, you're so pretty, let's have biracial babies..."

How well do you know this person who said this to you?

Not much.

 

[Jazzy]

yeah, but what I don't like is: "Oh you're Asian, you're so pretty, let's have biracial babies..."

How well do you know this person who said this to you?

Not much.

I forgot to ask you. Was this online or in RL?

 

[Naiwen]

Online and IRL.

 

[Jazzy]

Online and IRL.

Same thing was said to you online and IRL? Was it the same person?

 

[Naiwen]

No... somewhat the same thing. Not exactly the same.