Cheating Boyfriend

[Vivian]

Have any of you been cheated on or have been the cheater?



My friend highly suspects her boyfriend of cheating on her, but she doesn't know what to do. He's most likely going to deny everything. She really likes him and he does seem to care for her because he's always helping her out and checking up on her, but is this all just a lie too?



In your opinion, should she give him another chance? Why or why not? How have you dealt with a situation where someone has cheated on you? Do you think the saying once a cheater, always a cheater true?



Do you have any idea WHY someone would want to cheat on their significant other? Why couldn't that person just break up and get with another person instead of cheating on him/her?

 

[Raven]

I have been cheated on, Once a cheater always a cheater in my book, wouldnt give them another chance.

 

[Jazzy]

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I am not a cheater nor have I been cheated on. I disagree with once a cheater always a cheater. People can change and it's up to the individuals involved if they can forgive and forget.

 

[Nebulous]

Well you said she suspects him. I think she should confirm it before she makes any decisions.

 

[Corleone]

Well you said she suspects him. I think she should confirm it before she makes any decisions.

Exactly, I agree.

As far as the original question, no I've never cheated nor have I been cheated on. However, one time this girl I was going out with dumped me over another guy she liked, so I'm not too sure as to whether or not they had something going before she decided she liked this other guy.

 

[dan213]

I have never cheated but have been cheated on. I would never give anyone a second change though, I view it as only setting yourself up for another slap in the face.



Wish your friend the best of luck!

 

[Thom]

I think people can change but I dont believe in second chances.

Once someone cheats the trust is lost and that makes it hard to love.



When I was 16 I cheated on my girlfriend she forgave me so I knew I could get away with it.

I think I cheated because I wasn't ready to settle down.

Since then 2 of my ex girlfriends have cheated on me and i'm sure thats what made me change.

 

[Xerent]

I think people can change but I dont believe in second chances.

Once someone cheats the trust is lost and that makes it hard to love.



When I was 16 I cheated on my girlfriend she forgave me so I knew I could get away with it.

I think I cheated because I wasn't ready to settle down.

Since then 2 of my ex girlfriends have cheated on me and i'm sure thats what made me change.

Same except minus the 2 ex girlfriend cheating on me because I'm still with the girl I cheated on.

 

[Nebulous]

Well there is different levels of cheating. I think someone could forgive someone 'making out' with another person (or anything that isn't full-on intercourse) easier than if the other person had sex with someone.

 

[FileManager]

Its usually because there unhappy, bored, find other women attractive, taking advantage of other women (meaning she's giving him more then the girlfriend is.) And he's taking it.

 

[StevenF50]

Never being a cheater and never being cheated on!