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[Raven]

Great :/ It appears I have a drinker on my hands, just when I thought it was going so great.

Are you talking about Thomasz?

Yep it seems every weekend is an oportunity to go out on a 12 hour bender.
I had planned to take him somewhere nice tomorrow but tonight he would rather go to the pub, then a club and then a house party instead, and stay bed bound tomorrow morning/afternoon with a hangover. He stays out till 5-8am!!! **** that!!! I was invited but seriously! I am 26, he is 28, I think it's time someone grew up a bit.
I've never been one for big social occasions like getting absolutly annihilated. I told him I don't mind going to the pub once in a while with him but I will be wanting to go about 11pm, 12am. If he wants to go off partying till stupid o clock then it's up to him. But he can forget moaning that he rarely sees me!!!

I suppose I will get all the drunken messages at 5am tomorrow morning like the last few weekends.

Holy crap, that's a lot of serious drinking he's doing. You certainly don't need to be involved with that. Shame that he's choosing drinking instead of spending qualilty time with you.

What's even more sad is the fact he thinks that it's perfectly acceptable to do that. And makes me feel bad saying stuff like I barely see you etc.

 

[Jazzy]

Great :/ It appears I have a drinker on my hands, just when I thought it was going so great.

Are you talking about Thomasz?

Yep it seems every weekend is an oportunity to go out on a 12 hour bender.
I had planned to take him somewhere nice tomorrow but tonight he would rather go to the pub, then a club and then a house party instead, and stay bed bound tomorrow morning/afternoon with a hangover. He stays out till 5-8am!!! **** that!!! I was invited but seriously! I am 26, he is 28, I think it's time someone grew up a bit.
I've never been one for big social occasions like getting absolutly annihilated. I told him I don't mind going to the pub once in a while with him but I will be wanting to go about 11pm, 12am. If he wants to go off partying till stupid o clock then it's up to him. But he can forget moaning that he rarely sees me!!!

I suppose I will get all the drunken messages at 5am tomorrow morning like the last few weekends.

Holy crap, that's a lot of serious drinking he's doing. You certainly don't need to be involved with that. Shame that he's choosing drinking instead of spending quality time with you.

What's even more sad is the fact he thinks that it's perfectly acceptable to do that. And makes me feel bad saying stuff like I barely see you etc.

Sorry, but he's got a drinking problem if he thinks doing what he's doing every weekend is acceptable. Then, he tries to throw a guilt trip on you. I wouldn't feel bad at all over him saying he barely sees you. I would simply tell him, I am willing to see you and want to see you BUT I don't want to waste quality time with you being drunk.

 

[Flurry]

Great :/ It appears I have a drinker on my hands, just when I thought it was going so great.

Are you talking about Thomasz?

Yep it seems every weekend is an oportunity to go out on a 12 hour bender.
I had planned to take him somewhere nice tomorrow but tonight he would rather go to the pub, then a club and then a house party instead, and stay bed bound tomorrow morning/afternoon with a hangover. He stays out till 5-8am!!! **** that!!! I was invited but seriously! I am 26, he is 28, I think it's time someone grew up a bit.
I've never been one for big social occasions like getting absolutly annihilated. I told him I don't mind going to the pub once in a while with him but I will be wanting to go about 11pm, 12am. If he wants to go off partying till stupid o clock then it's up to him. But he can forget moaning that he rarely sees me!!!

I suppose I will get all the drunken messages at 5am tomorrow morning like the last few weekends.

Holy crap, that's a lot of serious drinking he's doing. You certainly don't need to be involved with that. Shame that he's choosing drinking instead of spending qualilty time with you.

What's even more sad is the fact he thinks that it's perfectly acceptable to do that. And makes me feel bad saying stuff like I barely see you etc.

Should not feel bad in saying that.

 

[Jazzy]

Hey there Zathras!

How are you?

 

[Raven]

Great :/ It appears I have a drinker on my hands, just when I thought it was going so great.

Are you talking about Thomasz?

Yep it seems every weekend is an oportunity to go out on a 12 hour bender.
I had planned to take him somewhere nice tomorrow but tonight he would rather go to the pub, then a club and then a house party instead, and stay bed bound tomorrow morning/afternoon with a hangover. He stays out till 5-8am!!! **** that!!! I was invited but seriously! I am 26, he is 28, I think it's time someone grew up a bit.
I've never been one for big social occasions like getting absolutly annihilated. I told him I don't mind going to the pub once in a while with him but I will be wanting to go about 11pm, 12am. If he wants to go off partying till stupid o clock then it's up to him. But he can forget moaning that he rarely sees me!!!

I suppose I will get all the drunken messages at 5am tomorrow morning like the last few weekends.

Holy crap, that's a lot of serious drinking he's doing. You certainly don't need to be involved with that. Shame that he's choosing drinking instead of spending qualilty time with you.

What's even more sad is the fact he thinks that it's perfectly acceptable to do that. And makes me feel bad saying stuff like I barely see you etc.

Should not feel bad in saying that.

No he is the one that says that. Making it sound like I don't make an effort to see him, but I see him 2 - 4 times a week!

 

[Raven]

Great :/ It appears I have a drinker on my hands, just when I thought it was going so great.

Are you talking about Thomasz?

Yep it seems every weekend is an oportunity to go out on a 12 hour bender.
I had planned to take him somewhere nice tomorrow but tonight he would rather go to the pub, then a club and then a house party instead, and stay bed bound tomorrow morning/afternoon with a hangover. He stays out till 5-8am!!! **** that!!! I was invited but seriously! I am 26, he is 28, I think it's time someone grew up a bit.
I've never been one for big social occasions like getting absolutly annihilated. I told him I don't mind going to the pub once in a while with him but I will be wanting to go about 11pm, 12am. If he wants to go off partying till stupid o clock then it's up to him. But he can forget moaning that he rarely sees me!!!

I suppose I will get all the drunken messages at 5am tomorrow morning like the last few weekends.

Holy crap, that's a lot of serious drinking he's doing. You certainly don't need to be involved with that. Shame that he's choosing drinking instead of spending quality time with you.

What's even more sad is the fact he thinks that it's perfectly acceptable to do that. And makes me feel bad saying stuff like I barely see you etc.

Sorry, but he's got a drinking problem if he thinks doing what he's doing every weekend is acceptable. Then, he tries to throw a guilt trip on you. I wouldn't feel bad at all over him saying he barely sees you. I would simply tell him, I am willing to see you and want to see you BUT I don't want to waste quality time with you being drunk.

Yea, If he mentions it again, then I will use this weekend as a prime example.
He is now trying to get me and my mate to go to the pub tonight and then we get a taxi back earlier and then he'll continue to party.
Well for a start my mate doesn't drink much - 2 pints of cider and she is on the floor.
And I'm not going all the way into the city for 2 pints. Taxi will cost £30!
And how embarrasing that the first time my best friend will see my boyfriend and he is completely drunk! Wonderful example!

Told him no thanks, i'd rather snuggle up in my warm bed, shame you can't join me. and he replied with I don't think you really want me in your bed sticking of beer.

No actually, I'd rather he weren't!

I'm just going to say I had stuff planned but you preferred to go out and get drunk so don't you dare say that again.

 

[Jazzy]

Getting real sick of seeing snow every day!

 

[Excommunicado]

Getting real sick of seeing snow every day!

Lol, there not been any snow here this year yet. :nope:

 

[Jazzy]

Getting real sick of seeing snow every day!

Lol, there not been any snow here this year yet. :nope:

Want some of mine?

 

[Excommunicado]

Getting real sick of seeing snow every day!

Lol, there not been any snow here this year yet. :nope:

Want some of mine?

Sure

 

[Raven]

No snow but had a massive thunderstorm here earlier.

 

[Jazzy]

No snow but had a massive thunderstorm here earlier.

Oh no! The tipi will never dry out!

 

[Nebulous's iconNebulous]

:wup:

Saturday! Hi peeps!

 

[Jazzy]

Hello Nebulous!

 

[Evil Eye]

Hi, folks. I feel like falling asleep

 

[Jazzy]

Hi, folks. I feel like falling asleep

Have a busy day?

 

[Nebulous's iconNebulous]

Nice horseys Jazz!

 

[Evil Eye]

Have a busy day?

Nope, this has probably been the most relaxing day in a week or two.

 

[Jazzy]

Nice horseys Jazz!

Thank you!

Have a busy day?

Nope, this has probably been the most relaxing day in a week or two.

Glad you got to relax for today at least.

 

[Nebulous's iconNebulous]

I have horseys in my living room on the wall that look just like that.

Although I've been meaning to replace that space with something else.