Dating someone way older than you

[hotspot]

What do you think about people who date older men and or women? Should they date older men and or women or should they find someone their own age or at least closer to their age?

Like if a 20 year old were to date a 40 year old, or something like that.

 

[Nebulous's iconNebulous]

Love is blind. It knows nothing about age or appearance. You cant help who you love.

 

[Temerit]

I pretty much agree with Nebulous one this one. As long as the pair is cool with it and it works, who are we to say that they should or shouldn't?

 

[Flurry]

I pretty much agree with Nebulous one this one. As long as the pair is cool with it and it works, who are we to say that they should or shouldn't?

I agree with this.

 

[Jazzy]

Love is blind. It knows nothing about age or appearance. You cant help who you love.

Very well said and I agree.

 

[Raven]

When I was 16, I dated someone of 32.



I've always like older guys

 

[Millennium]

At my age..it's getting harder to find older...

 

[hotspot]

You guys are very right, I thought of the idea once. Because I tend to like older men, like in their 30's-40's.

 

[Sam.]

I have no problem with it. However, gold-digging...

 

[Corleone]

Love is blind. It knows nothing about age or appearance. You cant help who you love.

I agree with that, but it's a little creepy if a 20 year old is attracted to a 40 year old. Only a twenty year difference.

10 years is the maximum for me, because I want someone who is about my age, and I don't even know if I'd consider it if it was 10 years, maybe 5.

 

[Odie]

be careful what you wish for ladies.



I was married to a man 13 years younger than me, guess what?



he's gone!

 

[Lloyd]

a 20 year old dating a 40 year old is fine in my books .. if your in love then go for it unless the person is under age .. then it is just wrong



ie a 50 year old man in love with a 15 year old woman.

 

[xneseyx]

I'm actually thinking about dating a guy who's 9 years older than me... my little sister thinks that's gross, but she's 13!

 

[Pulse]

I have no problem with it. However, gold-digging...

Gold diggin?



Something that I have not understood when it comes down to when younger people date older people.



Do you realize it's not all about gold digging?

I have no problem dating someone older then me, but I will never date someone younger then I.



Of course I am now in a relationship where I am dating someone who is 42 and I 23 years old. But then we don't let the age get to us. And no I am not dating the 42 year old just because of money. When it comes down to it. The people in my age group are all not my type and so careless. So insecure and so undecided in life. I want someone who knows what the heck they want in life. Not some child who cannot grow up. And trust me I dated enough to finally realize that people in my age group isnt for me.