My wife and I don't want kids. I prefer animals anyways, kids are a huge responsibility that I would never be ready for. When we first started dating she was thinking about having kids, but as we got older she wanted kids less and less.
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As a sex-repulsed aro-ace, I really hate sex, relationships, marriage, kids, toddlers and teenagers. I just think they're way too melodramatic, stressful and pointless for me personally. I'm already happy enough as a I am, and it does feel to I myself that I couldn't enjoy my life fully and wholly with a baby and a husband/partner. I'm having a hard time picturing myself being a loving and caring mother, since I don't even crave being touched or kissed by anyone at all, not even my friends and family. I'm also touch and kiss averse, I hate it and feels personally like a invasion of my personal space. My body and mind, no touch, no kiss, no sex. I really don't think I'm ready as a single, living alone, female 33 year adult, for a life full of responsibilities (financial, physical and emotional towers my kids and husband/partner). and parenting. It just feels for me personally anyways like a huge burden on my shoulders. I'm not mentally, financially or physically stable or healthy enough myself to raise a baby, plus, I'm not ready to give up my own personal total and complete freedom, independence and autonomy as human being first and foremost. I'm not ready to assume the role of an adult woman and that of a parent/mother.
