Does the guy have a say....

[Doc Nova]

Legally, haha fuck no the guy doesn't, but should he? Absofuckinglutely. We live in such a fucked up, ass backwards world. I already saw one comment that said if he doesn't want a kid, should have worn a condom. First off, condoms are not foolproof. Second, what about the woman? Why are people - especially women - very eager to brush off their responsibility? Condoms exist for both sexes, it is not solely on the guy. (Side note: I will say, some guys are insistent about raw dogging. In those cases, it is up to the woman to stand her ground and say "we wear a condom or this doesn't happen.") Also, there are other forms of birth control

If a woman gets pregnant and wants to keep the baby, but the guy doesn't, he is fucked. He gets no say in the matter, and even though the woman chose to keep it KNOWING (Emphasis on knowing) the father didn't and had no interest in helping financially, legally he has no choice in the matter. He now has to waste his money on a woman who made the decision by herself and on a child he didn't want.

If a woman gets pregnant and wants to abort, but the father is excited and wants to keep, well now the guy is a total piece of fucking shit for even thinking about forcing the woman to go through with an unwanted pregnancy! How dare he!

No matter what, guys lose. It's rigged from the start to favor women. Women have so much more control than guys do, it's insane. (Except for Texas, everyone loses there)

 

[Radrook]

As a four year old child , I was present when a baby was murdered in our bathroom and then wrapped in newspapers pages and dumped into the housing projects incinerator. She had responded to its cries as it was born by drowning it in the toilette bowl. I was told it was a cat that had been crying out. My father arrived and caught the visiting female in the act of carrying it towards the hallway incinerator and an argument broke out. She didn't like him arguing about it and tried get her boyfriend to beat him up.

Does the guy have a say in the woman he impregnated getting an abortion or not?

Since she didn't bring it into existence by herself, yes, he should have a say since part of himself exists in that baby, and a part of himself will be killed when she aborts it..

 

[Crys]

Depends on the circumstances and there are a lot of other circumstances. Two consenting adults that have had sex, female gets pregnant, yes the guy should have a say, he is the other half of the equation too. If by some chance I got pregnant, I would definitely involve my spouse in any decision making concerning it. That's just me.

Now....without going into too many details, if there are those other circumstances where there is not consent between adults then no.

 

[MamaFrankie]

No. Her body, her decision, her choice, her business. And that's all I'm going to say.