One of the things that bothers me - mostly because of how much it has happened to me in the past- is when you are lead on or manipulated by someone you love. You develop a relationship with someone, as it blossoms the other person finally decides to tell you they're already in a relationship.
Recently it has hit me hard. I've recently noticed a girl that I've known for about a year and we've been getting close. I'm not afraid to admit that I love this girl, I'm serious about a relationship. During our time alone together we keep a close friendship, I'd explain it as a brother-sister relationship. It's platonic love. During our time she's been giving me hints about a romantic relationship, ways a girl would act if they want a more intimate relationship. However, she says she has a boyfriend, of whom I knew nothing about. I don't like being lead on because I am no tool!
Worse yet, her boyfriend is in one of my classes. They talk to each other a lot, but she seems to ignore me and act like she does not know me. In the dark she acts romantic to me. In the light she ignores me.
I am unclear of how to handle this situation. It's a slippery slope. Her boyfriend doesn't know the extent our intimate relationship and that's how I want to keep it. She further complicates things when she gets angry when I don't return her advances. Has anyone here been lead on?
Recently it has hit me hard. I've recently noticed a girl that I've known for about a year and we've been getting close. I'm not afraid to admit that I love this girl, I'm serious about a relationship. During our time alone together we keep a close friendship, I'd explain it as a brother-sister relationship. It's platonic love. During our time she's been giving me hints about a romantic relationship, ways a girl would act if they want a more intimate relationship. However, she says she has a boyfriend, of whom I knew nothing about. I don't like being lead on because I am no tool!
Worse yet, her boyfriend is in one of my classes. They talk to each other a lot, but she seems to ignore me and act like she does not know me. In the dark she acts romantic to me. In the light she ignores me.
I am unclear of how to handle this situation. It's a slippery slope. Her boyfriend doesn't know the extent our intimate relationship and that's how I want to keep it. She further complicates things when she gets angry when I don't return her advances. Has anyone here been lead on?
