Epic fight with my girlfriend.

[CommanderMadi]

Yesterday was the worst day in my life, I fought with my girlfriend, quarreled loudly and I left her and went away, she kept crying like a baby and her female friends all surrounded her and kept calming her.



The fight was because of Facebook Status that I wrote, she thought that I do not love her anymore after I wrote the status, the truth was it was just a song.....



Both of us are short-tempered, but we have a good sense of humor, and we also share many habits and doings that are almost like each other.



We broke up temporarily, but I am almost dead already.



Any advice to fix all this mess up, please??

 

[Flurry]

Best I can tell you, is to do what you have to do to get her back. Although if she jumps to conclusions that quickly. I'd avoid in the future putting up lyrics like that.

 

[Rapunzel]

Tell her how sorry you are. Tell her it was just a song and you didn't mean it to upset her. Tell her how much she means to you and that you would never hurt her. A lil box of choccies always helps too. Good luck.

 

[Jazzy]

Did you explain to her it was just a song? Not sure why you would change your status but suggest you change it back to what it was. The worst thing you can do is have a quarrel and just walk away. You should have taken her somewhere in private and talked it out. When you walked away when she was crying just strengthened her feeling that you no longer love her. I suggest you call her and ask to meet her so you two can talk about this. When you meet, be honest and tell her how you feel. Good luck and keep us updated as to how things are going.

 

[CommanderMadi]

I have tried everything, she is refusing to talk and I am really badly hurt.

 

[Jazzy]

I have tried everything, she is refusing to talk and I am really badly hurt.

She's really badly hurt as well. Just give it some time for both of you to cool down. If she's refusing to talk to you, then leave her alone as the more you try, the madder she's going to get. They say time heals all wounds so just give her some time. Whatever you do, do not get her friends involed in this by calling them. This is something the two of you have to work out together.



Kind of contradicting myself here but have you tried to send her an ecard? Sometimes ecards can say how you feel much better than you yourself can. Here's a link that I often use and you get an email notice when the person you sent it to have viewed the ecard: http://www.123greetings.com/. Maybe she'll like the ecard enough to contact you.

 

[Flurry]

And if its a relationship that isn't possibly an LDR. Flowers can work too. But yeah, like Jazzy said. Give your girl some time.

 

[CommanderMadi]

All my friends told me give her sometime

Would you please tell me what to do at this unknown-timed period of giving her sometime?



Because I am really broken and greatly tired.

 

[CommanderMadi]

Hey Jazzy, thanks for the lift, that really boosted me up greatly, I will give her more time as I can, and I can enjoy annoying you all over here

 

[Temerit]

Yeah, my girlfriend sometimes freaks out at the most bizarre things. I think its stupid that the guy has to be the one who always apologizes and is always wrong no matter even if he didn't do anything wrong. It's stupid.

 

[CommanderMadi]

 

[Flurry]

All my friends told me give her sometime

Would you please tell me what to do at this unknown-timed period of giving her sometime?



Because I am really broken and greatly tired.

I'd say roughly a week. Or maybe even 3 days.

 

[CommanderMadi]

Lets see whats going on, and you all guys, thanks for the lift really. I think Ima gonna spend my time over here to not feel the pain I am already having.

 

[Flurry]

Lets see whats going on, and you all guys, thanks for the lift really. I think Ima gonna spend my time over here to not feel the pain I am already having.

Keeping your mind off it is a good idea. Hanging around with us folks is a good start in that direction.

 

[Jazzy]

Feel free to annoy me all you want

 

[CommanderMadi]

Yeah, considering the hang out with the You folks

. Read my latest jokes!

http://offtopix.com/showthread.php?p=170039#post170039

 

[Jazzy]

Yeah, considering the hang out with the You folks

. Read my latest jokes!

http://offtopix.com/showthread.php?p=170039#post170039

I feel like squeezing an orange after reading that joke.

 

[CommanderMadi]

Well, the pain Ima feel now is worse than the pain I get from a fracture or a virus....

 

[Jazzy]

The fight was because of Facebook Status that I wrote, she thought that I do not love her anymore after I wrote the status, the truth was it was just a song.....

May I ask why you even did this and what song was it?

 

[CommanderMadi]

It was over and over by Three Days Grace.

But the break up main reason has many backgrounds, not only the status, like over jealousy by me over her, my short temper and her short temper conflicts and people words!!