Family Betrayal

[Nebulous]

What is the worst thing that a family member has done to betray you?

Do you still talk to that family member?

 

[Raven]

Ha. Well where shall i start.
Dad - don't go there
Mum - emotional/sometimes physical abuse. But that was down to drink. She was not a nice person on the vino. Thankfully shes stopped that now and is a very nice person.

Nan on mums side - cut everyone out of her will for no reason, other than her tosser husband is a manipulative , sly, horrible man who has brainwashed her, Only my uncle speaks to her now. If we were to met in the street i'd blank her. My mum and my aunt are most upset.

 

[Progrumz]

My girlfriend cheated on me earlier this year with my cousin.

I think that pretty much takes the number one spot. I haven't talked to either one of them for months.

 

[Nebulous]

My girlfriend cheated on me earlier this year with my cousin.

I think that pretty much takes the number one spot. I haven't talked to either one of them for months.

Ouch! I'll bet that hurt. I don't blame you for not wanting to speak to either of them anymore.

 

[Progrumz]

I tried to be the "good guy" and forgive and forget, but when they started in with the photos and love messages on Facebook, I just couldn't do it anymore.

 

[Nebulous]

I don't think any of my family members have ever betrayed me.
... Nothing comes to mind, so, if there was anything, it was insignificant and in the past.

 

[Enter Username Here]

Well,

I don't speak to my family because the estranged from me because of the woman I chose to be with.

 

[Nebulous]

Do you think it will be like that forever? Maybe once they get used to the idea of you being with someone they don't approve of, they'll let you back into their inner circle?

 

[identityissues8]

Mum - emotional/sometimes physical abuse.  But that was down to drink.   She was not a nice person on the vino.  Thankfully shes stopped that now and is a very nice person.

My Mum's drinking problem through m y teenage years were what (besides religion) primarily guided my views against alcohol.

Oh. Also. My uncle, he committed an armed robbery and was jailed. He's dead to me.

 

[Enter Username Here]

Do you think it will be like that forever?  Maybe once they get used to the idea of you being with someone they don't approve of, they'll let you back into their inner circle?

TBH,

I really don't know, because in all honesty... There is a bad resentment right down the line. I left my parents at 15, because they were rich and judging, I did not want to follow that path. I have changing to do, but they as well, before we ever think about even being on speaking terms. They see my kids mother and kids, but they and I refuse to see eachother.

My parents are in their late life, so time is running out for ammends.

 

[Nebulous]

My uncle, he committed an armed robbery and was jailed. He's dead to me.

That may be a betrayal to the legal system but how did he betray you personally?