I cannot trust my half-sister anymore...

[Bryd0]

I expressed this on Facebook, now I'm going to say and rant about it here.



I'm starting to lose respect of my half-sister and the entire Seivwright family (consisting of my four nephews and brother-in-law). Why? She's expecting her fifth child (as she just had her fourth last year), my eldest nephew knocked up someone while drunk months ago which I cannot forgive him for, my brother-in-law has become manipulative where he had abused my half-sister and my two oldest nephews don't really care about their mother, especially when they were given money and used it to buy shit for themselves when they were supposed to buy things for Mother's Day. It's nothing but mayhem in the family now... and I want them out of my life. Seriously. It's getting out of hand and my mum is sick of it all too, where she told me that everytime she sees her daughter, she gets stressed and I can understand where she's coming from.



Although, they're not present in my life much as they live far in Moodiesburn (a town outside Glasgow) but, I just wanted to express on how livid I am over all this, and how foolish my half-sister is. I miss the times where my sister and brother-in-law were happy together with their two sons. Things started to go downhill for them since three years ago.

 

[Jazzy]

Things started to go downhill for them since three years ago.

What happened to them three years ago?

 

[Evil Eye]

Five children?

How does she manage?

 

[Bryd0]

What happened to them three years ago?

Things just got downhill for them like when my eldest nephew started to go off the rails by drinking and mixing with the wrong kind of people. Before this happened, he had dreams of being a football player but that's now out of the window. I've already lost respect of him after he made one of his friends pregnant while he and her were drunk months ago, and doesn't want to be involved with the person's life or her baby once its born.

Five children?

How does she manage?

I've no idea... but my mum's going to help her despite this.

 

[Nebulous's iconNebulous]

Take your family as they are... Dont turn your back on them because of poor choices they have made. Try to help them instead or at least be supportive of the positives in their lives.

 

[Cranos]

Of course it's difficult to assess the situation from over a forum, but from your story it seems to me your sister's life is falling to pieces and she could use some support...

 

[Bryd0]

Well she'll he getting support from my mum, and only her unfortunately...

 

[Jazzy]

I miss the times where my sister and brother-in-law were happy together with their two sons.

I think what you really miss are the times you and your sister were happy together. I have a feeling that you two were close and when she married and had children, you now feel she's not giving you the attention she once did. All or most of her attention is now directed towards her family and you feel left out. Am I right?

 

[Bryd0]

I think what you really miss are the times you and your sister were happy together. I have a feeling that you two were close and when she married and had children, you now feel she's not giving you the attention she once did. All or most of her attention is now directed towards her family and you feel left out. Am I right?

No, we weren't close and I never knew her during my childhood. Quite a complex story though.