Is anyone Touch-Negative?

[Naiwen]

I personally feel nothing at all in the presence of a human being. I much prefer the company of other beings than human beings TBH because they are silent creatures. Human beings talk and chit-chat way too much for my own taste. I'm also tough-negative. Which means that I hate anyone kissing, hugging, or touching me anywhere without my expressed consent, which is never, not even my close friends or family. And I don't even like a handshake from anyone. Yes, I'm that anti-social personally speaking. Older men and women have expressed their love for me and I've felt absolutely nothing at all either. Older men and women have kissed, hugged and touched me without my consent too without me feeling anything. Why do others exist at all for me personally? People annoy me for me personally at least anyways. I'd rather be left alone in my own bubble. I hate even being said "hi, good morning" to. Hence why, when I go out walking, it's always on the private lane around my house with my caretaker, never alone. Because if I go out there alone, I'd risk being said "hi" to and I hate it with a passion, I jump up in fright at the slightest noise. My therapist/psychiatrist has said it's a self-defence mechanism because human beings have hurt and harmed both physically and emotionally way too much in my past. How about you? Do you hate human beings too according to you?

 

[Smiley]

Hey Leeloo.

Spoiler

Spoiler

 

[emily]

I like to be hugged. of course, you have to ask me first, but 99.99 percent of the time I'll agree to it

not so keane on massages though- I find that idea a little weird

 

[Smiley]

not so keanu reeves on massages though- I find that idea a little weird

Sorry. I had to do it. Feel free to...

... me off.

 

[Nebulous]

Sorry. I had to do it. Feel free to...

... me off.

We need a 'Lame' reaction

Which means that I hate anyone kissing, hugging, or touching me anywhere

I think that's pretty much anyone if they didn't expect it or if its coming from someone they don't know too well.

 

[Smiley]

We need a 'Lame' reaction

Add it, if your heart desires it.

 

[Kale]

not so keane on massages though- I find that idea a little weird

I am still possibly ok if it's the same sex/gender as myself. I still get why that is weird and uncomfortable though.

 

[Elvira]

So is it social distancing massages you get. @Naiwen ?

---

---

I'm fine with hugging my mom, others meh.

 

[Naiwen]

So is it social distancing massages you get. @Naiwen ?

---

---

I'm fine with hugging my mom, others meh.

Yep.

 

[Webster]

Sorry. I had to do it. Feel free to...

... me off.

Excuse me @emily....

 

[Smiley]

Yes, excuse me, Emily...

 

[MrDawn]

I only like to be touched by someone I like. Strangers....no.

 

[Nebulous]

I only like to be touched by someone I like. Strangers....no.

Same here.

 

[Dee]

I have this weird thing about touch. If someone touches me, I get this weird like...I don't know how to explain it? Almost like when you touch a metal handle and it zaps you and you get that weird feeling in the pit of your gut. That's what it feels like.

 

[Nebulous]

I have this weird thing about touch. If someone touches me, I get this weird like...I don't know how to explain it? Almost like when you touch a metal handle and it zaps you and you get that weird feeling in the pit of your gut. That's what it feels like.

Is that everyone or just people you aren't comfortable around?

 

[Dee]

Is that everyone or just people you aren't comfortable around?

Not everyone. I'm okay with my family touching or hugging me, but strangers, friends, co-workers is awkward.

 

[Nebulous]

Not everyone. I'm okay with my family touching or hugging me, but strangers, friends, co-workers is awkward.

Same here. Theres like 2 people on this earth that I feel comfortable touching me.

 

[Webster]

We need a 'Lame' reaction

 

[Nebulous]

...or a slapped upside the head reaction