Boyxboy moments appear in anime a lot as fan service where the characters are not really gay. However, there are a few animes where they actually are.
First yaoi in general is good to me, because gay men exist in the world and bringing them into the anime fandom is great for sexual equality. However I don’t like yaoi in the aspect that it’s very hard to find any yaoi anime that doesn’t feature the three dreaded plagues that seem to seep its way into yaoi animes.
The 1st Plague: Abuse and Rape
I’d like to find just one where the characters have a healthy romantic relationship but are gay. In all honesty I have yet to find this. If you know of one please let me know.
However I have found a few animes that come close.
Gravitation.
Now this show features Shuichi a love struck singer who falls in love with Yuki a pessimistic novelist. I like it because it tried to touch base with a regular couple with the stresses of falling in love. Shuichi pushes it a lot more that Yuki but they have some cute moments and they do get you rooting for them to succeed and fall in love by the end. This scene features a kiss and is rather cute but also has its own problems.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=V1lHsr1YyAA
The comical punch at the end makes you laugh but at the same time stresses the abuse that seems to come up in yaoi shows oh so often. Also during the show our main character does (sadly) get raped. Not by his love interest but in order to protect him. Yet again, we can’t just have a simple romance, someone has to get raped or hurt. Love is stressful enough without that, so why can’t Yaoi animes just feature regular stress that comes with romance? I don’t know I wish they would.
Junjou Romantica
This features a number of yaoi couples living their daily lives. Some have to deal with the dreaded plague that seem to follow yaoi characters but there are a few pairs that seems to just deal with their regular problems (that even straight couples could have) without abuse or rape having to butt in. I like those couples. It makes them seem more real and really makes you want them to fall in love and have that stereotypical happily ever after.
Sadly, other than those two I have no run into an anime that even comes close to my ideal yaoi anime vision. Someday perhaps. Someday. Or perhaps someone reading knows of one. Let me know!
The 2nd Plague: Gender-Bender
Many animes feature a character who is a boy but dresses as a girl in order to be with the man they love. This is a terrible thing to happen in yaoi’s (though not quite as bad as the first plague). Why won’t these writers just let the men be men? They have to make one dress up like a girl in order to try and hide the idea that they’re a gay couple. Typically this happens in yaoi animes after one of the characters believes the first would like them more if they were a woman thus they dress up like it. Even Graviation fell to this plague as one episode Shuichi dresses up like a girl thinking that Yuki would like him more. (-.- ) Please let the gay men be themselves!
Note: I’d like to point out that what I am upset about with the 2nd plague is when a male character who typically would not dress like a woman puts on the clothes in an attempt to please the other. I am not upset about anime or real life men who wear women’s clothes and feel comfortable in them (like Haurhi’s father in Oruan Host Club).
The 3rd Plague: Inappropriate Ages
Now this one is a bit controversial. Many yaoi’s are featuring a young male being paired up with an adult male with a fairly drastic age difference, and again animes with this idea often feature the first two plagues as well.
In one aspect I want to belive in the love conquers all idea despite age, despite sex, if you’re both in love then you should be together. At the same time these anime shows with this age gap plague don’t often show where a young male character loves an adult and vice versa. More often than not it features a young male being abused and or hurt by the older male character and this saddens me because it’s taking away from the idea that male relationships can be healthy and appropriate.
Take the show Loveless.
While this show does not feature the first or second plague you still get the feeling that something is clearly wrong with their relationship.
Ritsuka (12), and Soubi (21) are the main love interests in the anime.
However their relationship doesn’t feature a “true love,” type story where perhaps Soubi will wait until Ritsuka is an adult before their relationship becomes physical (though it still might). Soubi was a fighter and romantic interest for Ritsuka’s brother until Ritsuka’s brother (supposedly) dies, and Ritsuka sort of inherits Soubi from him (for lack of a better term).
Now toward the end of the episodes you really begin to think Ritsuka cares about Soubi. However until then Ritsuka just seems uncomfortable around him and his advances. Now there is no sexually explicit content in the anime and a kiss is basically as far as it ever goes. However you know this relationship isn’t healthy or appropriate for either Soubi (who has been ordered to love Ritsuka) or Ritsuka (who endures romantic advances from Soubi).
Now we must discuss: Fanservice.
This isn’t a plague it’s just another way yaoi makes it into anime.
So what is fanservice?
To me fan service occurs when sex is referenced in anime. Either:
Visually (including but not limited to): pantie shots, removal of clothing, bras, cleavage, etc.
Physically: actual acts of sex, kissing touching etc.
Implied (and this seems to be the most popular): questionable acts that are meant to be innocent but can be taken to be sexual.
Implied fan service typically takes place when yaoi, or yuri moments sneak into an anime where the characters aren’t gay.
Below is a video that represents a bit of what I mean by implied fanservice. The twins featured in this video from the show Ouran Host Club are not actually gay. Their job in the host club is to bring the yaoi fan service to the ladies they entertain.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=y3QOoz-ti-w
However there is fanservice between Haruhi (female) and her co-star Tamaki (Male) where they have a few cute and romantic scenes. Some people believe that unless it references yaoi, yuri,or explicit sex it’s not fanservice. However I belief fanservice can be present with a straight couple as well. The video below features some scenes with Haruhi and Tamaki and some fanservice between them. It also has some just regular funny scenes but the scene I’m referencing specifically is at: 10:06 to 11:41. I would consider this a fanservice moment, but some would not.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tDBI0XfDVlc
The meaning of fanservice is different for a lot of people, the above is just my definition.
I hope someone comes out with Yaoi animes that avoid the Three Plagues, or if anyone knows of Yaoi animes that do I would be happy to learn about it.
I mention in a previous post that just because animes are cartoons it doesn’t mean it’s appropriate for children. Keep that in mind before letting your children watch anime.
I will cover Yuri at a later date for anyone interested…