As a sex-repulsed aro-ace, I've had my fair share of men and women to reject because I'm just not into sex, dating and/or relationships. Some of them have tried to convince otherwise, by telling me that it's a "basic necessity of life" which I strongly disagree with. Some others have said to me that they were very rich, as if I were a gold-digger, after their money only. A few others have tried to tell me "you don't know what you're missing", which I don't really care about. Lastly, some of them have been irl and online sexually harassing me or stalking, whom I've reported to the internet police and real police to have a restraining order against the. But all that to say, that people (men and women) don't take kindly to rejection at all, they have a pretty big ego, thinking that everyone should fall in love with them. How about you? Ladies and gentlemen, how do you feel about rejection (romantic ones only) according to you?
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Ladies and Gentlemen, how do you handle Rejection personally?
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I am the rejector. I eject and reject indiscriminately everyone and anyone. No one gets a second chance with me unless it benefits me somehow. Life is too short to waste it on other humans.
Okay, Neb, your turn. Give me your usual "you need to get laid" speech.
Okay, Neb, your turn. Give me your usual "you need to get laid" speech.
Okay, Neb, your turn. Give me your usual "you need to get laid" speech.
Never handled it well because I always make it out to be a problem with myself and if I don't make it out to be a problem with myself I generally just start defining humanity as scum buckets that care little to none about the good fortunes of others.
That's actually 100% accurate description of the human race.
I remember when I was a teenager I took a job going door to door selling newspaper subscriptions, I got the door slammed in my face and rejected all day / everyday for the short time I did that job. I suppose that experience helped me deal with rejection in other aspects of life. Its not that big of a deal really, eventually you'll find someone who wont reject you.
LOL - good training
(the door-to-door gig)It was a miserable job. One of my friends did it and was very successful. He got me a job and I failed miserably.LOL - good training
