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Nebulous said:Thanks. I've known my partner for nearly 3 years and I already feel like we've known each other all our lives.
I'm afraid because I have known him so long. His brother and sister in law are probably my best friends, I was in the wedding at 19. It seems like I've known him forever. Him and his girlfried at the time were the first to welcome me home from Ireland when I was 15. I just don't know what to do with this one,
chanel said:Nebulous said:Thanks. I've known my partner for nearly 3 years and I already feel like we've known each other all our lives.
I'm afraid because I have known him so long. His brother and sister in law are probably my best friends, I was in the wedding at 19. It seems like I've known him forever. Him and his girlfried at the time were the first to welcome me home from Ireland when I was 15. I just don't know what to do with this one,
Well if you have a connection there, go for it. Do you get the feeling he likes you back?
My last relationship? Honestly it was good sex but the girl was a physco. Ended because I found out her true colours and I am glad we don't talk anymore, she even lost pretty much all her friends for acting like she did.
Nebulous said:
I don't know. Would I have even thought of it before I even knew how he felt? That's what is stopping me. I do care for him he's a good friend I just don't know if I should let it go to another level. I think my problem is, I've been madly in love or lust and it's not there for me or maybe I'm just expecting way to much.
My last relationship ended up with a disaster (sorry but now I don't want to talk about it) and he cheated on me. I loved him so much that it took like a months to forgot him because we were classmates so I saw him almost every day.
Mu current relationship is perfect, we love and care for each other. We have been together for almost 4 years and a half and currently we live together in that city where I go to university.(we live like 90 km away from home)
Mu current relationship is perfect, we love and care for each other. We have been together for almost 4 years and a half and currently we live together in that city where I go to university.(we live like 90 km away from home)
Analyzing, analyzing, analyzing, analyzing 
I like thinking some things through from different angles but there's a limit to analyzing things or trying to explain something over and over and over again. It gets really frustrating and tiring, especially when the topic/subject is on its own something that isn't set in stone but is continually developing and changing. She was also insecure about her looks, about the distance, about changes. It was very tiring. Lasted some four years and ended with me taking a piercing and her not being capable of accepting that change to how I looked. Obviously, it was just the last drop over everything else that had added up. We're both better off without each other.
I haven't dated since. I find being alone with my kitties, concentrating on my life is well satisfying and starting something with someone just doesn't have lasting appeal to me right now.
I like thinking some things through from different angles but there's a limit to analyzing things or trying to explain something over and over and over again. It gets really frustrating and tiring, especially when the topic/subject is on its own something that isn't set in stone but is continually developing and changing. She was also insecure about her looks, about the distance, about changes. It was very tiring. Lasted some four years and ended with me taking a piercing and her not being capable of accepting that change to how I looked. Obviously, it was just the last drop over everything else that had added up. We're both better off without each other.I haven't dated since. I find being alone with my kitties, concentrating on my life is well satisfying and starting something with someone just doesn't have lasting appeal to me right now.
chanel said:
Okay then, if he gives off the friend/brother vibe then I guess it's not gonna work. I guess I am just less indecisive when it comes to these things. When you know you know and you don't know.
My last relationship didn't end well, if you could even call it a relationship. More of a hook-up, I guess. Knew her for seven years but never really talked, then eventually we hit of off about 2 months ago. She came up to mine last month, and it was great. She kept saying how much she liked me, we cuddled on the couch, made-out, and hinted at why I should date her, playfully. Wouldn't have changed it for the world.
Then the next day she texted me saying she wasn't ready for a relationship, and I got hurt. But I supported her as a friend. Then she had a fight with me, and removed all contact with me - although prior to this, she did tell me how she was in fact, seeing somebody. Low blow.
Been upset ever since.
Then the next day she texted me saying she wasn't ready for a relationship, and I got hurt. But I supported her as a friend. Then she had a fight with me, and removed all contact with me - although prior to this, she did tell me how she was in fact, seeing somebody. Low blow.
Been upset ever since.
My last relationship was very short lived. We almost made it to three months. He suddenly became very jealous, possessive and insecure. I mean to the point where I was constantly being grilled about where I was going and who I was going with. Then he started to 'tell me' who I could associate with and what I could or could not wear. Since I'm not an animal, I do NOT need a collar and leash put on me. 
I tried talking to him about it but to no avail. He just kept it up until I finally 'pulled the plug' on the relationship.
As I am typing this, I am very happily single!
I tried talking to him about it but to no avail. He just kept it up until I finally 'pulled the plug' on the relationship. As I am typing this, I am very happily single!
