My little bastard

[DrLeftover]

This is the first step to a lifetime of hate for one of your own and it's a real shame. There is a lot to be earned from having a healthy relationship with your siblings and to throw it all away over this is a tragedy to be honest.

I think you need to take a good hard look at yourself in the mirror and focus on YOUR flaws first before you can talk about helping anyone else. I will even provide a list...

1. arrogant
2. judgmental
3. disrespectful
4. disobedient
5. ignorant

What's funny is that many of these very same words were used to describe your sister when they actually fit you. Perhaps you can see why it would be best to be patient and loving while overlooking all of her flaws so she could do the same for you?

Nobody is attacking you as it only seems that way because you can't see your own mistakes and think everyone else has the problem. Goes back to my first item in my list.

You forgot one.

6. Denial

 

[Bluezone777]

This is the first step to a lifetime of hate for one of your own and it's a real shame. There is a lot to be earned from having a healthy relationship with your siblings and to throw it all away over this is a tragedy to be honest.

I think you need to take a good hard look at yourself in the mirror and focus on YOUR flaws first before you can talk about helping anyone else. I will even provide a list...

1. arrogant
2. judgmental
3. disrespectful
4. disobedient
5. ignorant

What's funny is that many of these very same words were used to describe your sister when they actually fit you. Perhaps you can see why it would be best to be patient and loving while overlooking all of her flaws so she could do the same for you?

Nobody is attacking you as it only seems that way because you can't see your own mistakes and think everyone else has the problem. Goes back to my first item in my list.

You forgot one.

6. Denial

By golly you are right. Though that one would only apply to him and not his sister based on what we know.

 

[DrLeftover]

You forgot one.

6. Denial

By golly you are right. Though that one would only apply to him and not his sister based on what we know.

...."based on what we know."

 

[FTON]

That's It!

I can see my own mistakes, but none of this list applies on me, you don't even know me well, so what you posted is a prejudge. An Invalid Prejudges, may be i have some flaws, but that wasn't what i posted this damn topic.
The recent posts were just a personal attack, it returns to many reasons, one of them you think i'm lying and i want control etc.. I said it and i say it again, i've never been a control freak and i don't want to be.
Do you even know what was behind posting this topic in the first place? No. I'M speaking about a person who recently became:
-Low tolerant
-Making fun of anything means alot to you
-Trying so hard to make you a bad example for other kids
-Blackmailing and targetting your weak point.
What the heck i was trying to say was The recent changes those are appeared on my sister, not to make her look how bad she has ever been for the GOD SAKE!
This was supposed to be how she had been

I don't usually say this, but i'm just posting it.
I have a younger sister, she's 14 years old, When she was younger than she's today, she was obedient, kind and funny,

And This is NOW

but now, she's just a little selfish bastard who thinks that she is "Grown up" with her disrespecting behaviour and her foolishness.
She barely listen to what i say, i used every method to take her back to her old life but no use, she used to be interested in half thoughts and discussions she shares with me, but now she thinks only about Johnny Depp, she told me once i'm grown up, but i'm still sure she's a child.
My parents kept telling me to be soft with her, which i absolutely refuse this as an answer to keep my dignity in safe.
My only explaination of this she got infected by the preparatory school, where recently all students became jerks.
Any suggestion regrading this please?

I have always loved her, and i still do Inside, all what i wanted was a piece of advice how to keep being laid back and respected in the same time, instead, i've kept receiving Personal attacks and claiming that it's not attacking.
As for the title "My Little Bastard", i wasn't trying to "Giving a horrible Example" i was just describing what i was witnessing in real life.
WHY DON'T YOU UNDERSTAND THIS?