Never forget

[Jazzy]

What is an experience you will never forget?

 

[Nebulous]

the day my daughter was born. 'nuff said

Feels like my kid was just born yesterday and she's gonna be in middle school next year!

 

[~KAGE-008]

When my little sister was born.

 

[Aimsori⌘Eaghan]

The period of time I was with my now Ex-boyfriend.

 

[Nebulous]

The period of time I was with my now Ex-boyfriend.

What made it so memorable and why did you break up?

 

[Aimsori⌘Eaghan]

What made it so memorable and why did you break up?

Oh, there were many reasons why we broke up, or why I decided to leave him, so to speak. He would manipulate my emotions, and did things behind my back that would pretty much count as cheating, until he eventually committed the actual act. He wasn't a good lover to me in general and would use me constantly for his own gain and pleasure, and it was my own fault for accepting him and letting it continue for so long. But, it's all over now. I summoned up the courage and willpower to end it some time ago-- 2 months or so.

The reason it'll forever be memorable to me, is because of how much pain and suffering I experienced while being with him, which is then overpowered by how free I felt once I broke the chains that were binding me to him. I've honestly never been happier. Being with him; our relationship is something I'll never forget.

I can't stay I'm glad it happened, because I'm not. I'm filled with regret, disgust, hurt and anger, but it's something I've learned to live with, and accept that what happened, happened, and there's no turning back. All there's left is to continue forward, and live on. Learn from past experiences, be them negative or positive. There's always something to learn from everything.

 

[Nebulous]

Ah I see, well most of us have been in relationships similar to that in some aspects so don't feel alone. When you do meet the right person one day, you'll see why it didn't work out with anyone else.

 

[Sariki]

Mine is the time I spent in the military. I just loved every moment that I was in. Now I'm in school... bummer lol

 

[Aimsori⌘Eaghan]

Ah I see, well most of us have been in relationships similar to that in some aspects so don't feel alone. When you do meet the right person one day, you'll see why it didn't work out with anyone else.

Quite honestly, I was never interested in any type of relationship, prior to this jerkoff coming into my life. He convinced me, made me fall in love and pretty much reminded me why I didn't want to be in a relationship shortly after.

I don't want to generalize being in a relationship simply because of past experiences, but I was never one to be a good lover either. I too, have my own issues which I am struggling to work with. I know one day I'll fall in love again, but for as long as I can help it, for the sake of both parties, I rather sit tight and admire from afar.

But you know, it's a personal preference, not a decision based on pain.

 

[Darth-Apple]

I'm not terribly big on relationships at this point either. I'll know when I find the right one, but right now I'm simply too busy between college and work, and it just isn't the right time for me. I almost feel like it'd be selfish to try to push for a relationship too soon.