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Do you only use the private messaging system as a tool to report issues to staff or just to chat with other members? A little of both? Use it for another reason? What should the PM system be mainly used for in your opinion?

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I consider the PM system as a way to have conversations 'off the board' and in private with other members.
 
I use it to chat with other people but don't use it a lot. :s
 
Jazzy said:
I consider the PM system as a way to have conversations 'off the board' and in private with other members.

^ ^ that.

Though I usually just get PMed by angry people as almost all friendly conversations can be public.
 
I use it as a tool to relay important information and have the casual conversation here and there.
I don't think it should be used for anything else though (like advertising, and we have rules against that).
 
I enjoy the Private Messaging system. To me it's a great way to have private conversations with other members here on Off Topix.
 
I use it on forums a lot to have private conversations with other members about trivial things you can't really say on the forum itself.
 
LordAnarchy74 said:
I enjoy the Private Messaging system. To me it's a great way to have private conversations with other members here on Off Topix.
How come I haven't received a PM from you? :cry:
 
Jazzy said:
LordAnarchy74 said:
I enjoy the Private Messaging system. To me it's a great way to have private conversations with other members here on Off Topix.
How come I haven't received a PM from you? :cry:

You live in the PM system. :P
 
Jazzy said:
RidleyMclue said:
I enjoy the Private Messaging system. To me it's a great way to have private conversations with other members here on Off Topix.

How come I haven't received a PM from you? :cry:

That's very true Jazzy. I haven't sent you a PM in a very long time. I'll have to do that some time. :)

Nebulous said:
Jazzy said:
RidleyMclue said:
I enjoy the Private Messaging system. To me it's a great way to have private conversations with other members here on Off Topix.

How come I haven't received a PM from you? :cry:

You live in the PM system. :P

You're one to talk. You live in the PM system too dude. :lol:
 
LordAnarchy74 said:
Jazzy said:
LordAnarchy74 said:
I enjoy the Private Messaging system. To me it's a great way to have private conversations with other members here on Off Topix.
How come I haven't received a PM from you? :cry:

That's very true Jazzy. I haven't sent you a PM in a very long time. I'll have to do that some time. :)

Nebulous said:
Jazzy said:
LordAnarchy74 said:
I enjoy the Private Messaging system. To me it's a great way to have private conversations with other members here on Off Topix.
How come I haven't received a PM from you? :cry:

You live in the PM system. :P

You're one to talk. You live in the PM system too dude. :lol:

Not really. :|
 
I think it can be used for whatever reason, as long as it's not, you know, bad
I don't like the fact that admins could look over my messages though so if i'm gonna have an extended conversation I just ask them to PM me at another site
not that I would have something to hide, but it feels NSA-ish.
 
nolvorite said:
I think it can be used for whatever reason, as long as it's not, you know, bad
I don't like the fact that admins could look over my messages though so if i'm gonna have an extended conversation I just ask them to PM me at another site
not that I would have something to hide, but it feels NSA-ish.
Just wanted to let you know that the Admins here at Off Topix do not have the ability to read private messages.
 
I think if you are on a forum and want to talk about super secret private stuff, you should take that to email. People seem to forget about having the ability to have an email conversation, lol.

I remember one time I was chatting with someone on another forum and I made some not-so-nice comments about the admin, next time I logged in, I noticed my PM abilities were removed and other parts of my account were locked up too. The admin told me that he read what I said and wasn't pleased. ..Oops
 
Jazzy said:
nolvorite said:
I think it can be used for whatever reason, as long as it's not, you know, bad
I don't like the fact that admins could look over my messages though so if i'm gonna have an extended conversation I just ask them to PM me at another site
not that I would have something to hide, but it feels NSA-ish.
Just wanted to let you know that the Admins here at Off Topix do not have the ability to read private messages.

Even if you don't have a mod for it, private messages can be looked at through the database. Since this is a privately hosted forum technically anyone with access to the server ACP could by using phpmyadmin.
 
Kirito said:
Jazzy said:
nolvorite said:
I think it can be used for whatever reason, as long as it's not, you know, bad
I don't like the fact that admins could look over my messages though so if i'm gonna have an extended conversation I just ask them to PM me at another site
not that I would have something to hide, but it feels NSA-ish.
Just wanted to let you know that the Admins here at Off Topix do not have the ability to read private messages.

Even if you don't have a mod for it, private messages can be looked at through the database. Since this is a privately hosted forum technically anyone with access to the server ACP could by using phpmyadmin.
I'm not saying it's impossible because it is. All I was trying to point out was that, here at Off Topix, (4 years on the web) we have never done it. I do, however, agree with comments made here. If you even THINK it's possible, take it off the forum and use your email provider.
 
Jazzy said:
I'm not saying it's impossible because it is. All I was trying to point out was that, here at Off Topix, (4 years on the web) we have never done it. I do, however, agree with comments made here. If you even THINK it's possible, take it off the forum and use your email provider.

Yeah, none of the staff strike me as people who'd spend hours sifting through raw data to find the PMs lol. Just wanted to add to the topic that it's possible on every forum where the admins have access to the database, even if there isn't a read all PMs mod for it.
 

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