I personally have some Buddhist religious beliefs about virginity. It is for me personally, very important. I’ve taken vows to be chaste all my life, following this religious doctrine. How about you? I even think that premarital sex is a sin, from my religious beliefs. Regardless of gender, age and etc? What do you TBH believe? Do you regret having done it your first time outside of marriage? I TBH don’t want kids and marriage for myself because I don’t believe in it bringing me personal happiness. Hence why being single and celibate brings much more peace and joy and harmony.
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Preserving Virginity, anyone?
- Thread starter Naiwen
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I don't believe it holds a special purpose, but then again I'm not religious and I don't practice concepts like that. I feel people should wait until they're old enough to deal with the consequences (STI's, pregnancy, etc) whether they're married or just getting some for the night.
I think it's a personal decision for everyone. If you want to be celibate, fine, be celibate. If you want to have sex, have sex! If you believe in no sex until marriage, that's fine, too. Everyone's different and what works for you works for you 
It will forever be strange to me that religion is so overbearing to the point of controlling people's sex life - or lack thereof. Aside from religion, there are girls who cherish their virginity as if it was something special. Now, don't get me wrong, every person's first time should be special and meaningful. However, there is nothing special about virginity. Why is it any of your business, why is it even important, if someone has had sex or not? How does their choice impact your life? The people who try and preserve virginity till marriage are setting themselves and their relationship up to fail. You test drive a car before you buy it, don't you? Test drive the dick/vagina before you marry it. Some people are not compatible sexually, and that will result in the relationship failing. "Saving yourself for marriage" is a religious scam to trap you into a relationship with someone.
Good advice but me thinks you're actually marrying the person attached to those body parts.
Hopefully you break those vows one day, you seem a little repressed. You're always talking about sex in your posts. Of course you're saying negative things about it but you're still thinking about it all the time.
You are, but if you're not compatible sexually, there is a higher chance the relationship won't work.
I'm asexual and it works for me. Just do your thing, everyone and to hell with the rest.
