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Sexual orientation

Jazzy

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How old were you when you figured out your sexual orientation?
 
I don't really know if I 'figured it out' as opposed to just knowing. I didn't experiment, didn't feel I needed to, and just grew into puberty knowing I was sexually attracted to guys. So maybe like...11ish/12? I wouldn't say I was an overly sexual person anyway. xD
 
Dee said:
I don't really know if I 'figured it out' as opposed to just knowing. I didn't experiment, didn't feel I needed to, and just grew into puberty knowing I was sexually attracted to guys.  

Same with me. I think, however, there were times my dad his doubts. The only reason being was that I was a 'tomboy' and was never into 'girly' things. I found dolls to be a stupid waste of time. I'd rather be outside with the boys building tree houses or working on dirt bikes. Yep, I definitely found what boys did way more exciting than what the girls did.

I hated to even wear a dress or skirt. I always wanted to wear my jeans or sweatpants. I even bought a secondhand pair of boys high top sneakers. :cool:

To this day, I'm still a "tomboy' at heart. :lol:
 
Jazzy said:
Dee said:
I don't really know if I 'figured it out' as opposed to just knowing. I didn't experiment, didn't feel I needed to, and just grew into puberty knowing I was sexually attracted to guys.  


Same with me. I think, however, there were times my dad his doubts. The only reason being was that I was a 'tomboy' and was never into 'girly' things. I found dolls to be a stupid waste of time. I'd rather be outside with the boys building tree houses or working on dirt bikes. Yep, I definitely found what boys did way more exciting than what the girls did.

I hated to even wear a dress or skirt. I always wanted to wear my jeans or sweatpants. I even bought a secondhand pair of boys high top sneakers. :cool:

To this day, I'm still a "tomboy' at heart. :lol:

I was/am a tomboy, too, but I never really questioned my sexuality. Some people may have because as a teenager I dressed more like my brothers than I did a girl, but who gives a shit about what other people think.
 
not sure, i always had attraction towards females and not males, so, all my life? :|
 
When I was 16. I discovered I'm not 100% a manly-wearer, but that doesn't mean I'm not attracted to the opposite gender.
 
+freezy said:
not sure, i always had attraction towards females and not males, so, all my life? :|
Same here with me, never experimented or thought about it at all.
 
I think I always knew, for the simple reason that when we were in our early teens people thought that me and my best friend growing up were gay.
We were picked on, called fags, even threatened physically and yet all we ever were was best friends.

We had no physical attraction to each other and as teenagers would do, we spent most of out time talking about girls.
If either if were gay we could have easily gone down that way because we were already being percucuted for it, but we didn't.
 

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