The Affair With a Twist

[Jazzy]

The Affair With a Twist
You suspect your partner is having an affair and eventually discover that not only are your suspicions correct but your partner is having an affair with somebody of the same gender. Would it be harder or easier to accept or would it make no difference? (For gay readers, opposite gender would apply).

 

[Bluezone777]

I don't see who they cheat with mattering in the slightest as your partner cheating on someone of the same sex as they are has nothing to do with you as it has to do with them not only being unfaithful but possibly hidden homosexual desires from both you and others either for the sake of fitting in or fear of what would come if exposed.

I would just tell them to leave and never come back as the act of unfaithfulness in a relationship(same can be said of marriage as well) is perhaps the highest form of disrespect that a man or woman can show their lover and likely is a sign they never had any respect or love for you in the first place. I think it would hurt regardless to some degree but it's not something you can't overcome and move beyond to where you can open yourself up again to a relationship if the right person came along.