To Tell Or Not To Tell

[Jazzy]

You see your best friends significant other in a restaurant. The problem is they are not with your best friend. They are with another person and they are holding hands and kissing each other. Would you tell your best friend what you saw or keep quiet about it? Please explain your answer.

 

[seasidemike]

Just so that I do not start trouble where there may not be any.. the first thing I would do is speak to the ‘significant other’ to ensure my interpretation of what I was seeing is correct..

Then go from there..

 

[Jazzy]

Just so that I do not start trouble where there may not be any.. the first thing I would do is speak to the ‘significant other’ to ensure my interpretation of what I was seeing is correct..

What if the ‘significant other’ told you to mind your own business? Then what would you do?

 

[Masri]

I'd take a picture and tell my best friend. I'd only show the picture if she didn't believe me, though.



Or at least, that's what I'd like to do. I'd imagine it would be way harder said than done, lol

 

[Flurry]

I'd get that there blackmail on that there person for proof. No need to keep it from someone. Sure, they might not believe ya at first. And it might cause an issue. But its better then hiding it from that friend. THEN, you get permission from that friend to grab a shovel and go to TOWN on that friend's cheatin' partner! Yee-Haw!

 

[Jazzy]

Without being able to provide proof of what I saw, I would keep quiet about it.

 

[seasidemike]

What if the ‘significant other’ told you to mind your own business? Then what would you do?

That would be enough for me to then go tell my best friend what I saw.

 

[Flurry]

Without being able to provide proof of what I saw, I would keep quiet about it.

Yeah, but what if that somehow blew up in your face when your friend finds out you knew?

 

[Cranos]

I'd keep quiet about it, meddling in other people's lives only blows up in your own face. I remember when a friend told me my gf was cheating, I wasn't grateful he told me, I was just ashamed that I didn't realise it myself and felt terrible. IMO it's best to let him find out on his own.