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- Thread starter Jazzy
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Everything is goung fine in my life 
No, a while ago the person I thought I might share my life with has disappeared. He stopped contacting me and when I try to call, my calls go straight to voicemail. I have no idea what happened or why it happened. Everything was fine and then "poof" he was gone. I'm still learning to try to forget him and move forward.
Thats sad & I'm sorry it's happened to you @Jazzy I know what its like the same happened to me years ago, she went home to Scotland and never came back no word nothing, but then bugger me 1 month ago she made contact I was very glad that she was happy & and well but still a bit pissed at her for what she did, it was the not knowing what had happened and if it was something I had done that made it hard to move forward.
Always am and always will be. Back when I was younger I actually used to be such an angry, depressed kid which resulted in me getting upset or taking situations totally out of sense. After sorting a few things out etc, I actually haven't had a 'sad' day in awhile, the worse feeling I've had recently is boredom.
It is the not knowing what happened that's very difficult to deal with. Even if he found someone else, at least be man enough to tell me. I also worry that something bad has happened to him. I left voicemail messages begging him to just call back and leave me a message that he's okay. Haven't heard a word from him.
You have to try and be pragmatic and say to yourself ok if he died theres nothing I can do to change that, and if he is not man enough to say sorry but your not the woman he wants then you have been lucky and dogged a bullet, his loss move on, smile, raise a glass to the past.
Sorry to hear that. Have you tried to visit him to get some answers?
He lives in another state so visiting him right now is impossible. Funny thing is that right before he disappeared, we were going to make plans for him to come see me for two weeks. Everything was fine and he'd been working very long hours. He said he would call me on March 16th and that's the last I've heard from him.
Wait, this was long distance?
Correct. We have known each other for quite some time.
How did you two meet?
Would rather not talk about this anymore. It's upsetting me.
